.yet again the ex wife is making my life a living he!!. She went out and got a personal protection order against me, so I cannot even see my newborn daughter. I have tried to reason with her, but she wants me to show up alone, with no Tape Recorder; then all she has to do is say,”He threatend me” and i go to jail. I was able to file against the PPO, I have never harmed her. Then the issue of my daughter comes up………I want to be a part of her life, but with the way her mom is acting, I will have to go to court to even see her. I have filled a motion to change judgment of divorce to include minor child; Can anyone tell me how she got a divorce without child, when she was 6 months pregnant? My doctor has prescribed some anti-depressants, but I still feel like my heart is being ripped out of my chest.
Then to top it all off, I have 2 kids living with me now, and they know something is wrong. I do not want to take it out on my family; so I do the best I can to hide it..but for the past few days it has been bubbling close to the surface, The smallest things bring tears to my eyes. I have been able to file, so in 10 days i go to court for the PPO, then 10 more days and I go in for the motion. I am kind of worried, I cannot find a lawyer to help me out, I am broke; and fighting with doctors; from a football injury…and a motorcycle accident. They tell me I should have been more carefull. Isn’t that great advice? I feel as if my life is draining away; and nothing I do stops it.
I email her at least once a day, asking to see my daughter where I do not have to worry about going to jail, or at least to bring a friend so that I have protection. But she refuses to email me back. But I am not supposed to call her (not in PPO). I was also told by the officer that delivered it that “I have never seen a PPO like this before) It says i can not go on her property unless invited. Also I am not aloud to kill her, or threaten too (which I have never done either). Like I said I have 2 Sons living with me; and just got the state to leave us alone. I have been cleared by DHS 3 times, so there is no way she can say I am an unfit father, but I should not have to go to court to see my daughter. So if any of you know A lawyer I can get ahold of that works with low income clients, Because she comes from money so of course mommy and daddy bought her a lawyer. And on the same token, I cannot get legal aid to help me, because I am not at the top of their priorities. I am afraid that I will screw something up and lose my daughter for good.
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