guy help: Ok, well i was making fun of someone cause they had a necklace on and i had never seen it on them.

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Ok, well i was making fun of someone cause they had a necklace on and i had never seen it on them.

And then i found out that his girlfriend had died, and that’s a necklace she had given him. I feel really bad and im not supposed to say anything to the guy, what should i do?

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jayhawks_rock0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (0 minutes after post)

U.S

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mou 2 #
AQ | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 minute after post)

jayhawks_rock0 wrote:
U.S

Wait…what?

You have to apologize and explain your situation, or ignore it altogether.

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 minute after post)

This will probably work itself out…just be more careful in the future, I guess.

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jayhawks_rock0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Ok, well i was making fun of someone cause they had a necklace on and i had never seen it on them. And then i found out that his girlfriend had died, and that’s a necklace she had given him. I feel really bad and im not supposed to say anything to the guy, what should i do?

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Al Gharrafah, 01, QA | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

just talk to him…be urself…tell him how u feel….just TALK!!…believe me it helps if u dont fake about how u feel

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jayhawks_rock0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

o thanks for the help?

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

But the guy doesn’t know right? You were making fun of him behind his back?

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I don’t see a need to bring it up if he doesn’t know. Just be more thoughtful next time, as you never know what people’s motives are.

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~Shie~ 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

well.. i hope this gives you great lesson on how you treat others…. picking on others is something that isnt really nice… and now you see why… hope you have a change of heart the next time you go to do this… as for this guy.. i suggest that you appologize…

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helpisfinallyhere 1 #
Louisville, KY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 hours, 39 minutes after post)

have you ever heard anyone say ‘think before you speek’. i think you need to employ that next, no EVERY time you talk.

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Louisville, KY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 hours, 45 minutes after post)

oh one more i just thought of, didn’t your mom ever say to you “if you don’t have something nice to say, say nothing.” Do that in the future. As for you friend do something nice, something he wouldn’t ever think you would do. Maybe get him a photo frame for a photo of his girl friend, but make sure its not some cheapo frame. Spend some time, ask a girl to go with you if you have to to help you pick it out. He will be warm and fuzzy inside that you thought of that and know that your apoligy is heart felt about the necklace.

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