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I’m all alone at home on a saturday night, im sad and lonely…

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bleedingcypher offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (0 minutes after post)

What’s wrong?

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

i dont have anyone here, all my friends and family lives 150 miles away, the only person who is here is my sons father, which is why i moved here, but we arent together anymore, so hes living with his parents. so ive been sitting here on my couch all day with no one to talk to to do anything with and i just feel so… alone…

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

sleeping

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

well, we do sometimes.. but it rained eariler tonight but then it got really cold so the rain froze to the roads are really slippery i guess… so no one can come over now anyways

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

yea we are on good terms for the most part… i dont wanna bother him, hes prob busy anyway…

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bleedingcypher offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

You could pick up a hobby. I like crocheting sometimes. You could make something, literally or figuratively, out of the things you have around you. I think doing something–origami, duct tape wallets, etc.–takes your mind off of the painful things. Think about it–one can sit around and think themselves to death, or engage their mind in chores or writing. In the past, I had to go to a Jewel at three in the morning for scotch tape because I was so depressed and had no one to talk to, so I figured rather than crying all over the place like I was, I should make an art project out of it.

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

well hes not talking to me online, so hes probably busy…
and i do scrapbooking and card making, but i dont have any pictures to use to make anything….

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gnarlycharlie101 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 minutes after post)

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do you like music?

if not, what do you like?

When i am lonely, bummed out, or just have nothing better to do, some crackers, a bed, a book, and some music is all i need.

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (25 minutes after post)

but its been like this for 6 months now. ever since we broke up, ive been reading books, watching tv and movies, listening to music, cleaning, but everything i do is at my apt by myself and i am sick of it… i dont wanna be alone anymore…

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bleedingcypher offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (26 minutes after post)

You could go to the help.com chat room and chat. I think having a good, friendly conversation with people is always nice. You could also try calling him, that’s also an option. Ha, if I’m all alone, I sing really loudly to music that I know the words to. . .it makes me feel like a rock-star, but if anybody heard, they’d probably freak. I’m guessing that with your son sleeping that it’s not a good idea. . .(^^);; You could surf up youtube or wikipedia. If you’re really bored though, I think sleeping is always nice. Maybe in your son’s room. A little mom-son sleep time, yeah? :D

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gnarlycharlie101 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

first off, if it is a chronological lonliness, i would suggest hitting the town, going out and making some friends, you will never get by in a city where you are almost all alone, it is just not good for the psyche, soo for tonight, i would suggest listening to some music, or singing it out loud (which i do all the time too) but not loud enough to wake your kid, or you COULD even chat it up on a chat site or something, and as soon as you get a chance, go out and find some friends, if you look for companionship, i’m sure you could find some.

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (32 minutes after post)

i dont have a car

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gnarlycharlie101 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (33 minutes after post)

oh, that can always be a dilemna 0o

well, do you work?

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (36 minutes after post)

yea, but i can walk cause its across the street

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gnarlycharlie101 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (39 minutes after post)

perfect, make some friends at work, alot of times, that is the best place to make some friends

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (46 minutes after post)

i have like 2 friends from there… but everyones always busy, no ones ever around when i call

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (51 minutes after post)

we do, but they say they will call me but they dont, so i call them and they don answer… so i figue thy r busy …
and i called hi\m …. didnt wanna tallk to me

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (59 minutes after post)

yea i love it when people only hang out with me because they feel sorry for me… not because they actually like me or anything… am i really that pathetic?? apparently so….

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gnarlycharlie101 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

go to a lounge or coffee house within walking distance and find some friends, and if that doesn’t then JEBUS GHRIST! go out into the street and find a friend. go somewhere where there are people and make friends to end this emotional and lonely rut

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

anonymous … do i know you?

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

no, its ok… its not you… sorry im just feeling sorry for myself so im acting kinda bitchy … thanks for your help, i do appreiciate it

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

anyone here use A!M and wanna chat possibly?

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NessaSirfalas offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

ok wheres the chat link?

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