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hey ummm…

.does wearing an elastic band on your wrist and popping yourself every time you feel like cutting yourself really work…i really need to know this……….

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

actually… i have seen this kind of thing used for theropy… they say that it really does work.. why dont you try it..

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i know this..i’ve been through this thats y im asking…

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i might……….

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Samantha offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

It worked for me. I was a heavy cutter. Good luck. Let me know if you want to talk.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

have you thought about getting yourself a journal? i know that when im upset and dont want to talk to anyone.. i write.. it lets me get out all my anger and pain.. and it makes me feel better.. also.. it will keep your mind and your hands busy…

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (5 minutes after post)

lil_bit_shi wrote:
actually… i have seen this kind of thing used for theropy… they say that it really does work.. why dont you try it..

thats wat i meant when i said i mite..

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i can’t have a journal my parents read everything,,thats how they found out bout everything this past weekend lil bit shi…

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

miss lizzie wrote:
i can’t have a journal my parents read everything,,thats how they found out bout everything this past weekend lil bit shi…

they did find out?? are you ok? if you would like to talk, i have msn messenger.

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

najpaj9 wrote:
Ohhh. Just don’t commit suicide.

i’ve attempted b4…and i won’t do that again…

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Pleasanton, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

if the elastic band thing doesnt work, go to the school counselor. Tell them you’re depressed. They can get you help without telling your parents or anyone else. (I suggest you don’t tell them about the cutting or else they are forced to report it, just tell them your depressed) It really helped me to just talk to someone. They can often also help get you medication, sometimes even without parents.

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

i dont have msn or whatever that is……they were mad and they r not gonna do anything 2 him at all..

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

ummm u wouldn’t understand that but she would..!..sry samantha

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

boomshuk wrote:
if the elastic band thing doesnt work, go to the school counselor. Tell them you’re depressed. They can get you help without telling your parents or anyone else. (I suggest you don’t tell them about the cutting or else they are forced to report it, just tell them your depressed) It really helped me to just talk to someone. They can often also help get you medication, sometimes even without parents.

my school counselor is an a$$….i’ve known her for FOREVER…kno way im talkin 2 her…

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

theyre not going to do anything???????? i just dont understand how they cant… and wont do a thing about it.. what did your brother say?

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Pleasanton, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

ok, dont talk to your counselor then, but definitely talk to somebody. Often schools have separate counselors for important issues like depression. If not, then a close friend or a trusted adult.

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

me and my dad aren’t telling him because my dad is scared 2 death that he is gonna shoot him…u don’t know my brother he is OVER PROTECTIVE!!!…he would honest 2 god KILL him..!

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

so, please tell me that your parents believe you… im a mother of 3 children.. my oldest being 16… and i so would not be sitting back and doing nothing… oohhhhhh that makes me so upset… did they tell you reasons why they arent???

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miss lizzie offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

ima send u a shout out

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (24 minutes after post)

kk..

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I found that the rubber band helped me from pulling out my hair, inflicting head traumas, and scratching my arms raw…but i think it depends on you, and how you feel.

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banahi offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (43 minutes after post)

it should work kinda like in a clockwork orange

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yehbuddy1 offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (55 minutes after post)

look ive been through the same thing you are going through now .. and im even in a break up with a girlfriend right now that is really gettin me down. you just have to look at things differently .. dont care about people stomping on you or tearing you apart.. just laugh in their face … dont beat yourself up

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