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Let go and fall a little. Sounds to me like you need to grieve and take some stock in what you have lost, and let it out. Then when you are ready, write out some of the things you rremember that you gained from the relationship, the lessons, the love, the experiences and own that too. YOu say you know its over, but have you really allowed yourself to feel it. Trust that you can spend some time with you, and when another is to come along, it will happen.

can i ask if this is your first love?

I agree with rabbit, it sounds like you guys were great friends too, double whammy! I have just come out of a relationship, so know how muddled all your emotions get… just set a little time each day for you and your thoughts… cwtching a pillow helps me to feel comforted when I do this, give it a go! Keep up that positive outlook, feed that self esteem and in time the gap which was once filled with her will heal, blah, I hate that time is healer saying too… but it’s true :)

Hey Andy, you’re doing great and you’ll be fine… all that love you gave, turn it towards yourself for a while, then when you’re feeling better, just get back out there, they say people who love once are more likely to love again :)

I feel bad for you, but only kind of. At least you had what you had, that’s the only thing that matters. You’ve got freedom. Feel the freedom and let it envelope you, and realize that maybe what you have is what you needed.