Love help: should i tell her?

magic dust

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should i tell her?

um im a girl n bein going out with my g/f for um 9 months now

n like my ma don’t know

so i was wonderin if u guys think i should tell her like now?

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

yep

she’s been over as a friend and ma ma likes her lol

chers 4 ur ans x

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Hey Magic Dust:-
Well done congrats on doing this out in open and not another ANON Grrrr I hate them lol

Im always getting shouted at for saying tell the truth and before it backfires so my answer has to be yes tell her now before she finds out from any troublemakers.

Just because your partner is a girl too it does not change the fact its your mom and your her daughter , she will love you just as much and more for telling her … mom may even look at it as having another daughter if she likes her ….whoops was going to say be a man (sorry) go for it girl lol, but you know what I mean and your partner should be there too for support and to see any negative reactions , I hope it goes fine and please lets us all know here

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I am saying yes ….lol take a deep breath and let it out …you will feel like the world has lifted itself from your shoulders , bet when your love was over meeting mom you were nervous as hell ?

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

j:-
your only anon sometimes lol so I only half hate you …..

Naw I love everyone lifes too short ….but I wont relent and answer ANONS lol

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

nope she comes over every week lol!

cheers 4 all ur ans x

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Good , now go tell her ….. and keep in touch

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (16 minutes after post)

im scard lol!

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (18 minutes after post)

dont be scared to keep in touch we wont bite honest

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Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Eh um Jen he is a she??

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (27 minutes after post)

jen2599 wrote:

dont be scared tell her!:) i think itll make your mom happy to see her son happy:)

lol!

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Sorry MD she means well Honest

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (30 minutes after post)

jen2599 wrote:
ooops sorry but the answer still stands:) shell be happy to see her daughter happy:)sorry its early here:)

Much better now your awake lol

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Helloooooo Calling all ANONS :-) this means you J

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Nensix 1 #
Nottingham, J8, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Yeah I agree, tell her, I expect she’ll be happy for you. It’s great when you’re family can support your relationship, don’t worry about her reaction!

Good luck.

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

cheers but im still scared lol!

i such a coward lol x

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

You’re not that much of a coward now you have come here to share it with us , you will be fine , whats you G/f saying about it?

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

um………………..

well her parents know

n like she won’t tell me outright on wether she thinks i should tell mine
um she kinda thinks it funny that they havent found out yet!
i want to do it for her cuz i’m not making sense am i

um sh’ll suport me i know she will
she always will lol x

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super_ritchiebaby 9 #
Greenock, V4, GB | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

You make good sense , and its that good sense and support of you partner that will get you through this and more .

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

k cheers
um i will tell in a min or 2 lol x

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

go ahead and tell your mom,, a mother is a friend and is the best person to give you advice! good luck :)

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

na,
ma g/f say she find it kinda exitin! lol!

thanks, um i will at sum point lol! x

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

I have to tell… lol….. any ideas on how to do it?
xx

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aislingaine_1 0 #
Manchester, I2, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

hey there… i think if u have a strong relationship and you really like this girl then obviously the important people in your life should know about each other.

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

aislingaine_1 wrote:
hey there… i think if u have a strong relationship and you really like this girl then obviously the important people in your life should know about each other.

thanks xx

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Maryann1991 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

hay. i just told my mom a week ago. its something you have too sit down and tell.

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

Maryann1991 wrote:
hay. i just told my mom a week ago. its something you have too sit down and tell.

wow well done… how did she take it?

but i still find it a scary thought! xx

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Maryann1991 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

eh… she denied it.

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magic dust 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 months after post)

yey…. i told her!

just in case anyone wanted to know!!

she was like fine with it and all

yey yey yey yey yey

i told her xx

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