Love help: I lost both my parents five years ago. - Help.com

you can never forget them and why would you want to dont mourn you paretns death. celebrate their life.

I am going through the same thing. I lost my both my parents a year ago and it still is so hard. I always say it is a miracle how I have been able to get through the past year. I still get very sad and I cry…but it is not as often as it used to be. It does get better. Reading the all these posts really was really encouraging.

I lost both my parents,and I have no other family members left alive. my parents had me late in life and my father was twenty years older then my mom. I grew up as an only child, and my parents were my world, i miss them so much words cannot express the pain it has left me with. ive learned to go on with life, and I try to be a happy person, but there is a part of me that is missing, I was so close to both my parents. I sometimes feel like a little girl, lost in a department store, thats the only feeling I can compare it to. time does help me to move on, but the loss never goes away. My mom has been gone for twelve years and my dad, for seventeen. It does help to know that there are others out there, and we are not the only ones who have lost both parents!

hi i too m an unfortunate one to loose my parents in a car accident they both were in their 50’s…I just cant explain what situation i m in right now…emotionally..i m in total depair…

loosing mom dad is i mean i m totally broken

i dont know how i m just telling u this as we r talking after such a long long time…

i am very very upset and it is so helpless.especially for my brother i m so much worried for him yar…actually he was driving the car and he is totally numb..

this is the worst part of my life and the bad time which i had never ever imagined in my worst nightmare…

i dont know how will we live without mom dad …whom to talk to from whom to take advice whom to call whom to go to…

life has become so meaningless now i dont know what to do and how to live

hi, i too know how it feels to loose both parents, my dad has been gone 8 years and mum has been gone for 5 years, i have also lost my older brother just last year. i tryed to be brave at first but only the last few days it has just sunk in that they are gone, I have other sisters and a litle brother but fine it hard to talk to them and others about it. I fine it hurts most when my children do something like a milestone and i cant show them. Everyone tells me that they can still see me and what my life is like but i cant picture that. I always have dreams about my mum coming back to us and life just picking back up and going on like she never died. I feel so mixed up and dont know what to do these days.

I lost my parents too, about 16 years ago, I was young, and all I got left with was a pain I couldn’t understand and loneliness, had no friends, had nothing to keep me busy with and would always get beat up, they made fun of me in the worst possible way, putting my parents down even knowing that there dead, we are very unfortunate individuals, most people don’t understand our pain so they look down on us, what I mean is, they don’t want to associate with us because were a bother to them, and there lovely happiness, I hate people like that, and all they do is complain how depressing everything is for them, and how much they detest living, girls and boys alike, its funny, because its not depression, its a little frustration, there stupid little minds cant even comprehend what the **** we’ve been going through, im 19 now, and I dont have any answers for you, my depression and hatred is all I have now, for people like me, who have no guidance and nothing to care for, even if I tell myself, the only way to live a happy life, is to have friends and to have as much fun as possible, I feel nothing, no matter how much I try, nothing entertains me, I don’t even have anymore interest in girls, you will live a sad and lonely life, always regretting what you never had, and how easily everyone has what you’ll never feel, don’t deny it either, this is our despair so we deal with it the best way we can, what gets burnt into your personality, will always be there, Im sorry that this is what has happened to us, I really am, from the deepest parts of my heart, I really feel for you, no one should ever experience what we have.

Both of parents are gone now……………………………………………. 5years later…. things still hurt a lot, there have been many adjustments I have had to make. I had top grades in school and ended up not using these at a place of higher education due to me wanting to stay close to my mom in her last months of life, then my dad was diagnosed with late staged stomach cancer and he died 4 months after my mother. My parents always had high hopes for me, they were wonderful, truly top grade people who overcame much adversity in their own lives. Currently I am breaking up with my girlfriend who I have been with for 5 years, and my only full blooded sibling leads an immoral life and resents me so my relationship with him is non existent. Yes things are tough.On top of this I had major facial reconstructive surgery to fix an injury which in my state of emotional hardship has been hell to endure. I would urge everyone never to give up… ever.. People dont understand if they havnt gone through it, that is just like I dont truly understand the starvation issue in Africa where literally millions die yearly , children born with disease , things like these. I suffer from depression and anxiety which IM sure alot of you do too.

I hope to have a family of my own one day… a beautiful wife and maybe even children… a home on a lake and blue skys is what I want….. Im crying right now…. I dont do that a lot… Im not sure why… Please keep your dreams alive and fight for your right to a measure of happiness and peace in this seemingly hopeless world.

Draw close to God, and he wil draw close to you, - Jas. 4:8.

I am also grieving deeply. My mother died on 8/1/08 and my father 10/20/01. At this moment, I feel empty. I am moved to tears easily and I still have to stop and shake my head in disbelief, like how could this have happened? She can’t be dead! I no longer have an anchor. And I am so anxious. I feel so empty. I did not realize how much my mother was interwoven in my thoughts and actions. There is always something that reminds me of her and how much I miss her. Just sending in this reply hurts.

I have tried to talk with my sister and brother, but they avoid emotions. This has caused me even more anxiety and worry because I don’t know how to relate to my siblings, esp. my sister. I thought she and I would help each other through this, but she has let me know that she chooses to grieve alone. I feel totally alone. What does one do when they feel they cannot go to their siblings for support because we do what we always did act as though it did not happen. I realize that I not only lost my mother, but my sister and brother, too, a way of life, safeness, loss of traditions.

I know it is sad but life is a roller coaster,it has its ups an downs but wild rides leads

to wild memories that never leave youre mind.

We and our siblings are a part of our parents. No amount of time will ever erase them from our memory. My father, my mother and my only brother have all passed on and I miss them each and every day of my life. My life is all alone. No friend, no relative seems to understand (or care about) the loneliness when all our family have passed away.

I used to think that maybe I’ll catch up with them someday, but lately I’ve come to (pretty much) believe that there is no afterlife, and of course, no God. Yet, I still cry for my family, sometimes I even call out for them. But they never answer. Yet I long for them each and every day of my life.

Hello to everyOne..
am new from this site..I feel very Sorry to everyOne down there…I lost my parent trough accident when they was traveling to Accra the capital town of My country Ghana for a visit..had no family memembers left in this earth..I always keep praying for all Our late mothers and fathers who pass before us and I hope we will set Our eyes on them One day..