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You know, I look on this site and try and help people, and ask an occasional question here and there but there’s one thing tht always bothers me.

When people, mostly adults, begin complaining about thier serious problems. When I see these, I can hardly muster up any sympathy, for I am a child who’s experienced a lifetimes worth of problems tht would make one of these vulnerable ppl cave. It is wrong tht I feel this way. I want to be sensitive but when ur an adult u can do anything but when ur a kid u hve no voice. I find it hard to hve and pity at all. =/

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Shie offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 182 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

i have to disagree with your post.. an adult who has an issue.. especially the one in which i have… you can not do anything about it.. please read my story.. click on the following link——-> www.myspace.com/missing_my_children you will understand that as an adult.. i have no control and have tried everything to change what has happened.. also.. there are plenty of adults who have issues that are different from mine.. however.. just because of their age.. it doesnt mean that they can control what is happening in their lives… that is why its called problems… and they post on here.. im sorry that you feel as though your issues are so much more important and uncontrollable.. but until you know for a fact that someone elses issue is a real problem for an adult.. as well… then please.. dont ever believe that your problem is so much more important.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

You do have a voice. Sometimes a fresh voice and a new, different perspective is exactly what a depressed adult needs to hear. Humor, innocence, positive outlooks with your whole life ahead of you. Make others feel like a child again. This site is annoying sometimes, but many find it soothing or just something that helps in a world where many do not care.

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