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I’m so sick and tired of being alone.

and it doesn’t help all my friends except like two are in awesome relationships, so unintentionally they rub it in my face. which i’ve slowly become used to.

But recently i’ve kinda been involved in some drama that still amazes me that we made it through. basically i’ve been used twice in the past month, both times by close friends. one of them is dating my best friend. and she’s the one who hurt me the most.

So i’m really tempted to just say screw it to finding a good relationship. apparently i don’t deserve it…..i’m just wondering what i did wrong. stupid karma

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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 318 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Feels good, to let it out doesn’t it. Maybe you should find some new friends.

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rabbit offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Scottsdale, AZ, US | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

If you keep putting it out there that your not worthy of a relationship, unfortunately you will keep attracting that to you.

You believe you should give up on relationships, say sarcastically that you deserve the bad karma.

I really think if you start changing that inner voice and declaring what you really want specifically and honestly, you will begin finding ways to attract that into your life.

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Jinx offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

I say screw what other ppl think, but you have to be willing to live with yourself. are you really willing to give finding a relationship?
besides, you never know, you might find it when you least expect it. the ones who waits are the ones that get the most out of it.

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surreal reality offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
UM | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 30 minutes after post)

look man i know from experaince you just gotta be patient lol and yeah i have friends that have perfect relationships and i used to actually get jealouse of what they had but now i just feel happy for them, just patient thats really the only thing that you can do but look positivly on the situation tell yourself that you will find someone not ohh maybe i will, in the meantime find something you enjoy to preoccupy yourself like me for instance i love to read or do many different types of science or i like to just sit and think about things use these as tools to help divert your thoughts elswhere youll find that something will come along.

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7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 48 minutes after post)

yeah i agree with (above) your a nice looking guy just give it time and love will come when your least expecting it,as for your mates yeah there in relationships good for them,your time will come,try doing hobbys you like just get on with life and love will find you.

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Ittoqqortoormiit, 02, GL | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 31 minutes after post)

volunteer… alot… the getting is in the giving and the giving is in the getting…. you’ll get this statement.. later.

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x-amy offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
AU | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 35 minutes after post)

If love dsoesn’t hurt then it aint love :)

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Luke.XIII offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Minneapolis, MN, US | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 33 minutes after post)

thanks for the feed back everyone

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dvlgrl offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Inver Grove Heights, MN, US | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 13 hours after post)

hey there, smile….
everything is going to be alright….
u will find someone when you least expect it!!!!
and when you do, this will all be gone. : )

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