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I think I like this guy.

I think I like this guy who just broke up with his girlfriend after being in a very long relationship with her. They say that it was a mutual break up. I like him but I don’t know if he feels the same way as we went out a couple of years ago, he dumped for a reason that neither of us remember anymore. I wear a necklace he gave me everyday now scince I have a had these feelings.

I don’t know whether I should tell him how I feel after a while because I can’t tell him at the moment as I don’t want to be the rebound girl. However I think that if I wait too long to tell him then he will be going out with his x again as they had a very good relationship. They also won’t tell anyone the reason of them splitting up.

Do I tell him how i feel? If so when?
Or am i just bringing up past memories that should be forgotten?

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basketball4life201 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Marys, KS, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

i have nearly the same problem. except his last x was this summer. if you really think you like him then just go for it

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cain_jo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 months, 3 weeks after post)

the best thing you can do is pull him to one side and talk with him and tell him how you feel the worst that could happen is tht he could say no but then again he could say yes and wouldnt that be a lot better theres no way around it really. the best approach is the direct one and if he is any type of decent bloke he’ll either say yes or he should break you down gently which isnt a bad thing at least you’ll know where you stand.

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