girl help: Is there something terribly wrong with me? - Help.com

You problem is this: no problem

You might be one of these independent people, who need not rely on anyone, not like the relationship dependant people who NEED someone. Im amost 21 and never had a GF or any romance, Im not that great looking but im no monster. you are probably a very unique individual, thinks diffrent, sees things diffrently ect… You’ll meet the right guy if you want to.

Is there anyone you like? Honestly theres a lot of people who only start dating later in life, and thats perfecyl fine! I mean, if you havent found someone you connect with then why force yourself onto the market?

LOL. first of all i think you’re very funny (hermit). second of all you should stop thinking about what the mayority of men want. a real guy will take notice of you if you just be yourself, not what others want. a lot of guys think that shy girls are atractive, so dont try and be something you’re not.

Nope I don’t see anything wrong, maybe you don’t seem approachable? Hmmm, I don’t find “skinny” bad, of course as soon as we got together, you’d be working out with me and learning about nutrition to get some muscle to tone on you, not saying that you don’t have a toned body but you did say skinny. Oh hey just realized it was you bitti whats shakin, well I can see not much in your dating life. Still I wouldn’t be so down your only 18, hell you’ll find someone interesting, just keep looking. About the shy part, yea, I think you should try to be more outgoing, and flirting isn’t that hard lol What kind of girlfriends do you hang out with? do you have a girls night out? are you even going out anywhere? Tell me whats the deal bitti, I’m sure there’s some parties out at your disclosed location, somewhere? But don’t be a hermit, nothing but that, go out, and have some fun :-)

u dont have to date anyone to feel good and tell yourself that your not sick

just be yourself and the rite guy will eventualy come

BChic, please watch this..

http://www.hasanyonetoldyou.com

Spunky101 wrote:
BChic, please watch this..

http://www.hasanyonetoldyou.com

i would suggest that video for someone who is depressed about life not someone who is having dating issues

Look bitti, I want you to get up each morning, and look in the mirror, and say “I am a Goddess” Say it with “Passion” know that your hot, sexy, and a real women, Get yourself hyped up for the coming day, and tell yourself, I will flirt with one guy today, maybe its a smile, or a flip of the hair as you look at him, something lol Remember Bitti, your a women, and women have one helluva power right between their…. well you know so use it girl, men are like toys lmao, use one and then move on to the next once it bores you lol You’ll be suprised how enjoyable you’ll feel, of course, you said your shy so that’s probably a bit on the extreme side lol :-P Anyways yea just be yourself, I think that attracts me the most, when a women is comfortable with herself, I know that once anyone gets to know you, you have much to say, and are quite interesting. :-)

Oh and have some Killswitch engage playing when your telling yourself your a goddess, or maybe some lamb of god lol :-P

Good point, but she made the statement about not fitting in…being shy, etc…Kind of thought the two were related here. But, thank you for pointing that out to me…..

Spunky101 wrote:
Good point, but she made the statement about not fitting in…being shy, etc…Kind of thought the two were related here. But, thank you for pointing that out to me…..

=] just doing my part 4 teh community

Is there something terribly wrong with me?

The above comment is why I sent her the video. Each person is special. She will find that special person. She must be patient. And, the video depicts this fact.

But, again, thank you being this to my attention.

Excuse me, thank you, for bringing this to my attention..

I’m the same as you are girl. and I know how you feel. I never had a real bf and im 18 too. and honestly, i dont mind, im waiting for the right one you know?
just give it time, were still young :)

i know people older than you who have never had a bf or gf.

If any guy doesn’t like you then that’s their problem.
Even as friends, if they don’t like you that’s their problem.
So, that means there is nothing wrong with you.
Now, finding the right guy.
Just know he may be shy too, so the whole ‘first move’ thing doesn’t work
very well. Don’t worry about finding him to soon though,
you have your whole life ahead of you. And girl, at 18 years young,
you really don’t have anything to worry about.

Great advise Soxs….