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haccoon
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Everytime I get involved in a relationship with a female

everything starts out good and then somewhere down the line I end up coming off real needy.Which ultimately pushes her away and then I have to start all over again.I hate this.How then do I not come off needy?

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

It looks like you need a good answer here and I’m not sure exactly what answer you need most, so I’ll just post this one and see what comes of it.

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Anas offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Needy in what way?

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'Bell offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I think you need to raise your own self confidence, look at you rather than the relationship, if you are confident and content, you will not be so needy. Find the right relationship, and needy isnt necessarily a bad thing, we all need people, being there for each other is one of the most important things in a relationship I think. Give some examples though, in what way needy, emotional, with their time?

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Sorcerer1005 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Houston, TX, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 hours, 42 minutes after post)

She’s probably just full of herself? Needy, what the hell is all that about? Well it of course all depends on you, I mean it’s ok to want to hang with your girl, or just know how she is, call her here and there, but if its like 24/7, she can’t even go to the bathroom without you wanting to know what she’s doing then, yea….back up a little, thats a bit “needy” Maybe thats how you were acting? I mean thats what the word needy brings to mind, all encompassing. Never any time to breath, be alone with my thoughts. Anyways, you probably didn’t listen to her? Did you have good communication? Did you? Did she say you were to “needy” or “Clingy”?

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theresape offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Waltham, MA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (12 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Read the book “He’s Just Not That Into You” and change all the pronouns.

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