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ok so I am paranoid about someone breaking into my house or killing me or my parents!

does anyone know how to stop thinking that way or about it?

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A Hoe offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
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Install a home alarm system.
Why would you think such things in the first place?

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littleking1117asdfl; offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Orem, UT, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

don’t worry about it. the chances of that happening are very slim.

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Uncertain Future wrote:
Install a home alarm system.
Why would you think such things in the first place?

I have an alarm system by ADT! I don’t know why I think this way I just do!

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

littleking1117 wrote:
don’t worry about it. the chances of that happening are very slim.

Thank you! I know that I just can’t stop thinking about it sometimes!

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A Hoe offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Do you live in a bad part of town or one that’s had a history of break-ins?

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littleking1117asdfl; offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Orem, UT, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

i know i’m like that sometimes too. But just listen to music, or think about happy thigs :)

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Uncertain Future wrote:
Do you live in a bad part of town or one that’s had a history of break-ins?

I live in Las Vegas! Not really a bad neighborhood but no neighborhood is good here anymore!

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

littleking1117 wrote:
i know i’m like that sometimes too. But just listen to music, or think about happy thigs :)

It’s good to know that I am not alone! Thanks!

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

have you noticed that you have any other paranoid thoughts? this is a sign of ocd. obsessive compulsive disorder..

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

“Just because you’re paranoid, don’t mean they’re not after you.”

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

lil_bit_shi wrote:
have you noticed that you have any other paranoid thoughts? this is a sign of ocd. obsessive compulsive disorder..

only sometimes but thts usually when I watch CSI or Law and Order or something like tht right before bed!

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

JesusMurphy wrote:
“Just because you’re paranoid, don’t mean they’re not after you.”

wat does tht mean?

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

my daughter has ocd.. obsessive compulsive disorder.. meaning that little things bug you really badly.. my daughter has to count… no matter how many times she walks up and down a set of stairs.. she has to count them.. and if she forgot too.. she restarts so that she can count them.. just one sign.. another.. there are people who have to constantly wash their hands.. over and over..

ocd are thoughts that are almost a control over your life…

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (32 minutes after post)

i personally have ocd.. but have never been classified from a dr. i have this thing in which.. when i have money in my purse… i have to keep opening it over and over as i walk through a store to make sure its there… because im afraid that i might lose it…

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¡Nellie.Skywalker! offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Washington, DC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Things like that pretty much only happen in horror movies or Law and Order. I had the same paranoia after I saw an episode of law and order one time, but I woke up the next day and..Ta-Da!! I wasn’t murdered. I’m assuming that you live in a safe neighborhood, and that no one is angry at your family-If that is the case, I think you’ll be safe. (:

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (35 minutes after post)

l0langles wrote:

JesusMurphy wrote:
“Just because you’re paranoid, don’t mean they’re not after you.”

wat does tht mean?

Just a song lyric. Thought it might apply here ;)

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Gimme.a.break wrote:
Things like that pretty much only happen in horror movies or Law and Order. I had the same paranoia after I saw an episode of law and order one time, but I woke up the next day and..Ta-Da!! I wasn’t murdered. I’m assuming that you live in a safe neighborhood, and that no one is angry at your family-If that is the case, I think you’ll be safe. (:

thanks! tht is helpful!

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (36 minutes after post)

JesusMurphy wrote:

l0langles wrote:
JesusMurphy wrote:
“Just because you’re paranoid, don’t mean they’re not after you.”
wat does tht mean?
Just a song lyric. Thought it might apply here ;)

that is a weird song and doesn;t help at all!!!!!

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (38 minutes after post)

there are people who think the way that you do.. and are always checking to make sure their windows and doors are locked.. over and over before they go to sleep… this is another sign of ocd…

there is medication for it.. as my daughter was on some… however.. it made her go from one child to about 10 all rolled up into one.. the energy she had was outrageous.. and neither myself or her could handle it.. so i weened her off from it..

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (41 minutes after post)

lil_bit_shi wrote:
there are people who think the way that you do.. and are always checking to make sure their windows and doors are locked.. over and over before they go to sleep… this is another sign of ocd…

there is medication for it.. as my daughter was on some… however.. it made her go from one child to about 10 all rolled up into one.. the energy she had was outrageous.. and neither myself or her could handle it.. so i weened her off from it..

Everyonce in a while no matter where I am I ask myself or whoever I’m w/ if the door is locked but not all the time! I don’t wash my hands cept before eating and befoer bed and when I wake up in the morning! Sound like ocd?

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¡Nellie.Skywalker! offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Washington, DC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (41 minutes after post)

I don’t think having one little fear should have you getting medication for ocd. You just need some reassurance. You could set booby traps every night in front of every door and window…

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Gimme.a.break wrote:
I don’t think having one little fear should have you getting medication for ocd. You just need some reassurance. You could set booby traps every night in front of every door and window…

well I have a two story house and my room is on the second floor and I have four dogs so I know I’m ok I just freak out about it sometimes! I can’t set booby traps by my doors cuz my da=ogs walk in and out all night! Good idea though!

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¡Nellie.Skywalker! offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Washington, DC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Or you could keep a phone by your bed just to know you can call 911 if an emergency arises. And put bells on the door, but I think ADT works well too. lol

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
or get a dog like a german shepherd if you dont have one already that might help you to feel safer:)

I actually have threee golden retrivers and a shiz tzu trht thinks shes a german shepard!!

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
oh oops four dogs already sorry:)

no problem

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Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Gimme.a.break wrote:
Or you could keep a phone by your bed just to know you can call 911 if an emergency arises. And put bells on the door, but I think ADT works well too. lol

ok I will try the bells and try to persuade my parents to get me a phone!

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 22 minutes after post)

l0langles wrote:

lil_bit_shi wrote:
there are people who think the way that you do.. and are always checking to make sure their windows and doors are locked.. over and over before they go to sleep… this is another sign of ocd…

there is medication for it.. as my daughter was on some… however.. it made her go from one child to about 10 all rolled up into one.. the energy she had was outrageous.. and neither myself or her could handle it.. so i weened her off from it..

Everyonce in a while no matter where I am I ask myself or whoever I’m w/ if the door is locked but not all the time! I don’t wash my hands cept before eating and befoer bed and when I wake up in the morning! Sound like ocd?

ocd is different for every one.. like my daughter doesnt wash her hands excesivly like some ocd people do.. everyone can be different… but.. it would be best if you talked to a dr about it… they can determine better… sit back and think… are there things in which you do over and over until you feel inside that you did it just right??

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 25 minutes after post)

lil_bit_shi wrote:

l0langles wrote:
lil_bit_shi wrote:
there are people who think the way that you do.. and are always checking to make sure their windows and doors are locked.. over and over before they go to sleep… this is another sign of ocd…

there is medication for it.. as my daughter was on some… however.. it made her go from one child to about 10 all rolled up into one.. the energy she had was outrageous.. and neither myself or her could handle it.. so i weened her off from it..

Everyonce in a while no matter where I am I ask myself or whoever I’m w/ if the door is locked but not all the time! I don’t wash my hands cept before eating and befoer bed and when I wake up in the morning! Sound like ocd?

ocd is different for every one.. like my daughter doesnt wash her hands excesivly like some ocd people do.. everyone can be different… but.. it would be best if you talked to a dr about it… they can determine better… sit back and think… are there things in which you do over and over until you feel inside that you did it just right??

not really!

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

maybe google ocd or obsessive compulsive disorder and see if they tell you different signs and symptoms… then maybe you can go down a checklist and see if you compare or not..

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UCreateUrReality offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 5 minutes after post)

It’s not going to happen to you, and if it does you won’t be prepared for it until that exact moment, so believe that it wont happen.
When you believe it wont happen and then act that way, the universe has a way of making it so.
So chill. ;)

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Clinton Township, MI, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

why are you afraid? i think you need to figure out what caused this fear first, but then it’s also normal to be afraid. Just get an alarm system and sleep with a bat or gun under your bed or something. I’m not going to tell you that it won’t happen to you because no one knows, but i’m telling you to just take measures in to try to prevent it. Also make sure your windows are locked a night in addition to alarm and gun.

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

UCreateUrReality wrote:
It’s not going to happen to you, and if it does you won’t be prepared for it until that exact moment, so believe that it wont happen.
When you believe it wont happen and then act that way, the universe has a way of making it so.
So chill. ;)

yeah thanks!

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 8 minutes after post)

jesseli12 wrote:
why are you afraid? i think you need to figure out what caused this fear first, but then it’s also normal to be afraid. Just get an alarm system and sleep with a bat or gun under your bed or something. I’m not going to tell you that it won’t happen to you because no one knows, but i’m telling you to just take measures in to try to prevent it. Also make sure your windows are locked a night in addition to alarm and gun.

yeah thanks!

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starbuxxl0l offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

ahh alyse u need to stop watvcing murder showws

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