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I have a problem that I don’t know how to solve, and at times I just feel like throwing in the towle.

If you know what I mean.
Back in 1986 I recieved a head injury, and sence then I have been trying to keep a job but do to a lack of understanding with co-worker, and employers I have been terminated from everyone. I am now 36 and just starting to get involved with a special girl, (I am a guy) but I don’t know who I am going to support her if I can’t keep a job.
You might sugest then go “back to school and learn a trade.” Well I have with one year left at Andover College studing Criminal Justice and Real Estate Investing Institute learning how to invest in real estate, but I don’t know if I can do it.
Everyone seems to thing that if you don’t see a problem or handy cape up front then there is nothing wrong. They are so dead wrong. In that way of thinking reflecting towards us just let us feel that we don’t have anybody to talk to.

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Scottsdale, AZ, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Aren’t there any programs or organizations that would give you some support or at least be an advocate for you?

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Gloversville, NY, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (45 minutes after post)

have you ever thought about applying for ssi and disability?

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what kind of misunderstandings are you getting into with co-workers?.. what kind of damage has your head injury caused??…

im just asking because my biological father had a very bad head injury.. it caused him to develop schizophrenia.. he takes medication etc.. hes on disability and has to be watched.. im sure your case isnt so severe.. but head injuries are huge set backs.. and im very sorry..

Ive never been able to keep a job for long.. im only 19 but ive been working since i was 15.. and i have huge problems with anxiety.. when someone upsets me or makes me angry i feel it all over.. i get hot and sweaty and my heart starts racing and ive fainted.. and basically i break down and get fired because it seems like i cant handle the job.. (when really its just people).. or I just run away and quit..

im also majoring in Criminal Justice.. i looooove it.. its helped me to develop a “backbone” …>> i hope and pray and wish that ill be able to handle it once i graduate..

just keep trying.. and keep your head up.. i fell in love with someone who couldnt support me (who is now my husband and we have a baby on the way).. he’s kept trying and he’s never given up.. and ive never given up on him.. its taken us almost a year now.. its a struggle.. but you’ll come out on top in the end.. just dont give up..

“Seek not to create failure, nor to avoid failure. Seek instead to allow failure, when it comes, to keep you moving on the path to greater success.” - Thomas Edison

Best of Wishes =)

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