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Is it wrong to love my dog more than my family?


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animal offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

As long as there is no peanut butter involved, No…..

Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

what do you think?
think of it this way:::: your house is burning, you have one way to help them either to help your dog first or your family first
who would you take first?

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

breathing¤scrolls wrote:
what do you think?think of it this way:::: your house is burning, you have one way to help them either to help your dog first or your family firstwho would you take first?

cant make it more reasonable cause i cant, cause i cant think now, im tired, but im enjoying this too, while im tired

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

some people consider their dogs ‘family’ so it’s all good, I agree with animal though… you should leave the peanut butter in the pantry.

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

screaminglywonderful wrote:
some people consider their dogs ‘family’ so it’s all good, I agree with animal though… you should leave the peanut butter in the pantry.

so your family is trapped…. who would go first the family dog or the family human

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

It’s alright to have stronger feelings toward an animal than you would your own family. An animal is always there for you no matter what, and won’t talk back to you and if you feel comfortable with your dog no one should argue over there.
Scrolls, don’t bring up stuff like that. It’s not very nice to have to decide between two things you love and hopefully both ‘animals’ will get out alive…

Anyway, like Scream, it’s all good. (: Don’t worry about it…

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

breathing¤scrolls wrote:

screaminglywonderful wrote:
some people consider their dogs ‘family’ so it’s all good, I agree with animal though… you should leave the peanut butter in the pantry.

so your family is trapped…. who would go first the family dog or the family human

The least controlling. manipulative, obstinate, rude, complaining and dictatorial family member gets out first of course silly.

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

yeah but still consider it, it will help you realise who you really love more

beanpoh i did not say its bad to have strong feelings for dogs, im just not a dogman, i have many birds at home here if birds are animals!!!1

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

screaminglywonderful wrote:
The least controlling. manipulative, obstinate, rude, complaining and dictatorial family member gets out first of course silly.

its just bad to see you leave you mom to burn alive cause she a controlling, rude house dictator

i realise its just hard to see any of the family trapped no matter how evil they are
just not too evil that will risk my life

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beep offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Trenton, NJ, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

animal wrote:
As long as there is no peanut butter involved, No…..

Oh God. I needed to acknowledge that reference.

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

breathing¤scrolls wrote:

screaminglywonderful wrote:
The least controlling. manipulative, obstinate, rude, complaining and dictatorial family member gets out first of course silly.
its just bad to see you leave you mom to burn alive cause she a controlling, rude house dictatori realise its just hard to see any of the family trapped no matter how evil they arejust not too evil that will risk my life

Are you /still/ talking? o.o

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Beanpoh wrote:

Are you /still/ talking? o.o

are you shutting me up,? did i offend you
what wrong with you, or you just pissed off i strongly love my opinion, if so shame on you if so read carefully before replying

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

-wince- Geez, no need to get all itchy. -shrug- I just think you’re bringing up personal opinions that don’t need to be brought up. But I don’t want to argue, so. -leaves-

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Ye, because humans come before animals, but on the other hand, you should love and show kindness to your animal.

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hotdog321 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

My opinion? If you love your dog more than your family, it just might be time to have a talk with your family. I honestly don’t think you love your dog more than your own family….try communicating with them (minus the dog). I mean no mdisrespect here so if I’m out of line for my opinion, just let me know.

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idkmybffsophi offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Cape Elizabeth, ME, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

i would take my dog out of the burning house, adn then, maybe my family

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

starjone wrote:
Ye, because humans come before animals, but on the other hand, you should love and show kindness to your animal.

starjone wrote:
Ye, because humans come before animals, but on the other hand, you should love and show kindness to your animal.

thats what i mean, i said im tired but though im enjoying this
dont say im getting all itchy to which im not i just wonder why you tell me im a still talking.
dude you have some serious issues

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Hotdog is right, talk to your family before a situation happens one day.

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idkmybffsophi offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Cape Elizabeth, ME, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

But my dog loves me and is always there for me, my faily thinks i do grugs and dosnt support me.

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

idkmybffsophi wrote:
i would take my dog out of the burning house, adn then, maybe my family

seee was it that hard?
i did not say take your family first, i was just asking which one will go first cause if the dog first, it just shows how much you love it

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idkmybffsophi offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Cape Elizabeth, ME, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

i love her sooo much

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Scrolls, for one, I’m a girl, not a dude. Second of all, I was just wondering because you seem like you just won’t stop your point. Everyone understands it and most agree with it, it’s just if you drag it on it won’t seem to have the same effect as it would if you would just leave it at one or two posts. That’s all. I’m not disagreeing or agreeing in anyway, I’m just here to say that. -shrug- Not looking for a fight. xD

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

This is not normal! If you do not do drugs, then your heat and mind is clear. You can’t please the world.

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idkmybffsophi offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Cape Elizabeth, ME, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Agreed starjone

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idkmybffsophi offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Cape Elizabeth, ME, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Why should i love perople who are mean to me and dont support me at all more than a “person” who is always there for me and loves me unconditionally?

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Beanpoh wrote:
Scrolls, for one, I’m a girl, not a dude. Second of all, I was just wondering because you seem like you just won’t stop your point. Everyone understands it and most agree with it, it’s just if you drag it on it won’t seem to have the same effect as it would if you would just leave it at one or two posts. That’s all. I’m not disagreeing or agreeing in anyway, I’m just here to say that. -shrug- Not looking for a fight. xD

ohh so now you are looking what i do? wow i only said you’re a dude cause you act like one and stop it i asked something and you replied like i offended you, so thats why i reacted
adios

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Breathe Scrolls. I think the poster already determined that they loved the dog more, they were asking if it was wrong. and you do appear aggressive towards me and my comment on this post as well as toward beanpoh. :/

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

idkmybffsophi wrote:
Why should i love perople who are mean to me and dont support me at all more than a “person” who is always there for me and loves me unconditionally?

your family support you if you live at home,eat at home, and more things
i think you should have some chat with them and understand their point

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

I think you are misunderstood. Stand up for what is right, love your family if though they act biased against you. In the end you will shine. Pick your friends wisely, because we are judged by them.

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

I don’t take that I act as a dude as an offense, actually. (: I don’t mind, guys are cool.

Thank you, Seamingly. -nod- I appreciate it. I don’t know if I have said anything wrong, and if I have, I apologize. :/

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idkmybffsophi offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Cape Elizabeth, ME, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

i live at home, i eat @ home, so i guess they physically support me, i guess ill ahve a chat w/ them, thx guys (Beanpoh, not saying ur a guy)

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

groupppppppppppppppppppppp huggggggggggggggggggg))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))!

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

screaminglywonderful wrote:
Breathe Scrolls. I think the poster already determined that they loved the dog more, they were asking if it was wrong. and you do appear aggressive towards me and my comment on this post as well as toward beanpoh. :/

evidence i appeared aggresieve to you, i dont wanna do this, like i said i was asking something and i wanted an answer.

did the poster get offend on what i asked? no i dont think so, so why the repliyers get offend i really need some evidence here im never angry

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

No problem, IDK. :D I don’t mind being called a guy. Scrolls, I don’t know how to answer you. Considering you don’t use correct spelling and you use run-on sentences, I can’t answer because I don’t understand what you’re saying. What do you want as an answer from me?

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Beanpoh wrote:
I don’t take that I act as a dude as an offense, actually. (: I don’t mind, guys are cool.Thank you, Seamingly. -nod- I appreciate it. I don’t know if I have said anything wrong, and if I have, I apologize. :/

you’re welcome no problem if you have no problem with me, now im confused i though you had a problem

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An²a offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
Springfield, IL, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

I didn’t, I was just letting you know I was of the female gender and not the male, Scrolls.

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

We love each other now okay!

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

idkmybff: your family loves you too, but a dogs affection is definitely simpler/easier to understand and not riddled with human emotion. It will be okay. I’m sorry you are having such a hard time… be patient this too shall pass.

breathing: No thanks, not interested in educating you on the nuances of the English language. Regards.

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

I love English————love to be educated! you’re great!

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

screaminglywonderful wrote:
idkmybff: your family loves you too, but a dogs affection is definitely simpler/easier to understand and not riddled with human emotion. It will be okay. I’m sorry you are having such a hard time… be patient this too shall pass.

breathing: No thanks, not interested in educating you on the nuances of the English language. Regards.

ohhhhhh c’mon give a break, now i dont speak good english? i always though so but okay thanks for the credit

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starjone offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

hey screams, my family lives 30 mins from you! heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

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