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awwh :(

mann that sucks

And you’re just going to let her go like that? I’d drop outta whatever you’re in and commit myself to winning her back like my life depended on it, if she really meant that much. Screw any other priorities in life. I’d put the person I love before anything.

hahahha have you ever watched Legally Blonde? same thing rightt so go steal her heart from that Ken doll she found! :)))

Dam bro, I don’t even know what to say, that freaking girl dam lol Well, just going to have to sweep that one under the rug and forget about it. Sorry to hear that though I don’t even know you or anything but I’d feel pretty bad myself, although I have to say the whole long distance thing didn’t look to good even from the beginning, as is with most long distance relationships, I’m not sure if I would have gone on “with” it knowing we’d be apart. Anyways thats just me, hope you find someone else. Good Luck with your training, career and love life. :-)

I know how do you feel , the best way is to move on , no good byes , just let her go. It is so painful now , you need time to get through this just don’t worry at the end you will find your way out (if you want to) .

You will fall in love again .. I know it :)

What a story.
If she is supposed to be with you I’m sure she’ll realize it sooner or later.
If not,who knows? Another great girl might pop into your life again :)

I don’t think she felt as strongly as you did and I’m sorry for that, but you could look at it this way. At least you found out now instead of after getting engaged or married. When you lose a loved one whether in death or a breakup it can hurt so bad and it takes a long time to get over it. You have to take this one day at a time with baby steps until you don’t feel that pain anymore. Go out with friends, don’t cut your self off from the world and have a good time it will help. Try very hard every day to not dwell on her and her face, but on something completely different. I really hopes this helps. Good Luck

I’m really sorry. If it feels any better I know what it feels like when “the” person walks out of your life but of all the attempts from people to make me feel better there was one that really stood out:” when there is a relationship that fails in your life it is to prepare you for the one person that was really meant for you”. Strongs!!
P.S Reckless driving dreams means that you are losing control of your life and you are responsible for it.( You sound like a really nice guy, don’t throw away your life.Nothing is forever, the frustration and the hurt WILL go away!!!!)

I’ve never told anybody this but something similar happened to me. I had this boyfriend for a couple of months and all of a sudden he told me that he had to move to across the country and that he just wanted to be friends. It really broke my heart, it took me awhile to get over it. For like two years I couldn’t get him out of my head! I hated every moment of it. I mean it seemed like no one else was appealing to me anymore…but one day I woke up and that feeling was gone. It may have taken awhile but yeah…he recently contacted me and told me that he was sorry that he was such a stupid jerk in the past. He regret what he did…too bad for him. :) It just takes time to get over someone. Keep yourself busy. You seem like a nice guy, so I’m sure things will turn out just the way they are supposed to be.

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First, we salute you and thank you for choosing the military, no matter what branch.

Second, take it from an old married lady..get over it and move on. Most people love many times before they find one that is worthy of them. What is important is becoming the man that is worthy of the best. Be honest and true, if that is not enough for her then she does not deserve you. Don’t let anyone soil who you are, don’t let this disappointment affect you negatively. A man’s character is not measured by what life gives him, but by what he does with what life gives him. Don’t do stupid things, don’t emabarrass yourself, don’t carry the hurt and let it damage you in any way. If you do, you give her power over you long after she has gone.

I promise you there will be another, better woman, but you have to be ready for her. Don’t waste your time mourning for long. Feel the pain, put it in it’s place and use it to make you a better man…not an angry man.

My husband flew for the Navy for 30 years. I am grateful to the lovely wife he lost to cancer and the nasty, insecure ***** who divorced him for making him the wonderful guy he is today. He has loved and he has hurt, but he rose above it and learned from it.

Do the right thing.

Oh…and I could care less about being anonymous…Long Beach, CA…moving to Tennessee in the future!
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