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Whats is a friend for life.

Is it a friend that years from now you can visit and it be like yesterday? Is it a friend that is with you thru the years? How can you even hold onto a friend like that in these times. If your living in a world where consistency does not exist. A world where morals are upside down and it just feels like you have to bring something to the offering plate for someone to stick with you. Why does culture and race have to play a role in this? So many why’s and yet not many answers. There is just no love out here anymore. You can’t just chill and play some hoops, you gotta go get trashed. I don’t know about you but liquor doesnt help me forget anything but the night before i drank it. Smoking doesnt do anything but make me a different me and in the end you still have to look yourself in the mirror and see that your still you. Why do we choose the foggy path when there is a clearer one in front of us. What makes you so scared to take that path. Is it expectations that you think are too hard. Can you not fathom the fact that we are intended to progress. Why must you break thru the fog and try to be different. Why cant you accept everything around you. Nobody is born in the same place or circumstances. Yet we all have the same goal. Different obstacles but the same dreams. Different attitudes but the same inspirations. You may not agree with all that and maybe it is just a smidge off but you must agree that without love, theres no fuel to go on andtheres no passion to strive. People will continue to selfdestruct, its been happening milleniums before me. But there is hope, and maybe hope isnt something false, maybe one day hope will come thru.

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Nightowl offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

This video is about true friends.


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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (11 hours, 56 minutes after post)

a dog….

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Milwaukee, WI, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

in my ‘friend-for-life’ experience, my friend and I have had to learn to respect the paths we’ve each chosen, continue to risk being vulnerable and honest with each other (especially when it was the scariest), practice FORGIVENESS, and make an effort to let the other know that they are loved, appreciated and valued. It has truly been HARD WORK over the years! We have been friends over 23 years - we started out teen parents together, went through our “fogging” years, and now have very different lifestyles and priorities. there were even times that I didn’t know if our friendship would last…but it has. We were all just together yesterday with our families, playing board games, cooking a huge meal and taking pictures. It was one of the best day’s I’ve had in a long time. Now we’re at the point where she isn’t my friend anymore…she’s my sister.

my two cents.

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megannnx719 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Concord, NH, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

i think that it tends to be all of those things combined. though, most of them aren’t perfect, forgiveness is key, helping each other through the things that are thrown at you in life are key as well. i know this post has been up for a while, but i felt the need to say something about it. i’ve definitely been through this kind of dilema.(sp?) anyways, hope all of your questions are answered. :]

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (4 months after post)

it is when he or she never gets mad at you when you all have plans and you change it they don’t get mad that is a friend

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