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Whenever i organise something I get worried afterwards that something will happen which will prevent me from being part of that.

To combat that fear i try not to look forward to it but in some respects i think it is a deterrent to me organising things - i organise few things i just kind of try and let them sort themselves out - this spontaneity may sound ok but it not good but i can’t get things done coz alot of the time they don’t sort themselves out.
I don’t know if i’m asking for advice or just complaining - both probably.

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nspq_me offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (41 minutes after post)

just let things go with the flow. if they go rong then hey… just pick urlsef up and start agen. start by organising really easy stuff like gion bowling or sumat…. ask loads of people and then if sum dont turn up u will still av people there. this will also boost ur confidence and then u move on2 sumat a bit more difficult… like the cinema. gud luk organising. mee x

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rstorku offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
AU | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

thanks all :)
God Bless

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