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Heya, i want to get rid of this girl from my life completey

she has ben texting my boyfriend and they have been meeting, he asures me that it wont happen again and that they were only frineds but he had lied so much recently i cant trust him. I have already blocked her number from his phone without him knowing but, i want to be able to eliminate her from our lives completely!! Dose anyone have any sugestions??

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Gluv2lu offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Homer, AK, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

It’s not her you need to get rid of,it’s him.If he continues to acknowledge her,than he still has a interest in her.Go find the one who will be committed to just you.You are woth that.

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mmattis offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Fairport, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Hey unfortunatly if yu want to eliminate her for the safty of you relationship than you really need to take a closer look at your relationship and not put all the blame on this girl. Make you boyfriend be accountable for his actions and if he keeps lying to you and seeing her behind your back then you may want to eliminate him completly from you life as well as her… Focus on what is the real reality and truth of this situation and not just what will make you feel better for the moment… If you get rid of her who’s to say he won’t find another pal?

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

well ” Gluv2lu ” i just want to say the same thing :D …

first of all u see u are looking at the problem from a wrong perspective… ur bf is doing u wrong not the other girl … let’s say they split and not talk to her again ,, he will find some else ,, u are talking the wrong person … if ur bf cheats or thinks of cheating on you then he is not forth ur love to him ,, as G said u are worth it and u’ll find a man who loves you for who you are …

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

tackling* = talking

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

worth* = forth

sorry :)

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Gluv2lu offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Homer, AK, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Is there away I can enlarge the post the print is so small have a hard time reading them

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jaxee3 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Why are you doing all the work. I’m going through some what of the same thing. And dont you think that the one who made the mess should clean it up? If he messed up he should fix it he should block the number he should try to rebuild the trust what ever it takes, dont you think? And if hes not willing to do that than hes not worth it I am taking my own advice!!!!!

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nextstar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (56 minutes after post)

I think the problem is not wth him but with your boyfriend. Blocking her number from his phone isn’t a slolution , maybe they are just friends .
You can’t prevent your boyfriend from contacting her unless he doesn’t want to contact her anymore.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

I dont think its the girl thats the problem, more your boyfriend, if you dont trust him, thats something you need to address between you as that will never go away unless you do, even if she does! He’s with you for a reason dont forget, talk to him, explain how you feel.

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Gluv2lu wrote:
Is there away I can enlarge the post the print is so small have a hard time reading them

You can do it from your own browser. Third tab to the right: “View”. There must be an option there to choose the size of the text you’re reading.

As for Lozza… The problem is within your relationship as everybody has mentioned already. You either need to have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about it and find out what his true feelings are or let go of him altogether.

There is no other way, really.

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Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (5 hours, 20 minutes after post)

dont act crazy.

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