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Hey everyone.

I need some help on how to understand why my boyfriend wants to take some time away from me and date other people.

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Shawno loves Michell offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Seguin, TX, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

He sounds like he lost interest in you.. you should move on he doesn’t sound like a very good guy..

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ivy7239 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Hinesville, GA, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

No, he’s so sweet. We were doing just fine, then one day he calls and tells me that we should take some time apart and see other people, I don’t know what’s wrong. I’m so lost and confused.

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He everyone.
I need some help on how to understand why my boyfriend wants to take some time away from me and date other people.

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Sorcerer1005 offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Houston, TX, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Why in the hell would he even ask that, thats the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard, he’s totally in the wrong, “take some time to date other people” Oh so in other words he’s looking for some new “Pu**y” I think you should seriously think about what he just told you. Even if you all “IN LOVE” with him and all that, don’t be blinded to the truth. There is no “time” to see other people. If your just dating then don’t sweat it, move on, if you’ve been with him for a long time, it means he’s lost interest and probably found another women that’s totally swept him in. I’d say tell him “Oh see other people sure, but don’t come back, its over” Simple as that! :-) don’t fall for that ‘crap’ he’s spouting.

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med442 offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Saint Paul, MN, US | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

I agree with….

Sorcerer1005 wrote:
Why in the hell would he even ask that, thats the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard, he’s totally in the wrong, “take some time to date other people” Oh so in other words he’s looking for some new “Pu**y” I think you should seriously think about what he just told you. Even if you all “IN LOVE” with him and all that, don’t be blinded to the truth. There is no “time” to see other people. If your just dating then don’t sweat it, move on, if you’ve been with him for a long time, it means he’s lost interest and probably found another women that’s totally swept him in. I’d say tell him “Oh see other people sure, but don’t come back, its over” Simple as that! :-) don’t fall for that ‘crap’ he’s spouting.

There are other MEN in the world that wouldn’t do that.His is a PU**Y to say the least. Ditch him and time heals and so does moving on and meeting other people when you are ready….

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