Family help: what do i do when my theripist thinks i should move out of my parents house.

ashelyexquisite

what do i do when my theripist thinks i should move out of my parents house.

she thinks that it would be better for my heath. im not sure what to do though.

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jcd 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

If you moved out, would you have anywhere to go?

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ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

ya i would i guess it depends on child and family services, im on file with them. so they always have to know where im living.

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ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

my dad is ya.. but not my mom.

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mandragor 0 #
Yakutsk, 63, RU | 1 year, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I believe you will have more strenght to cope if you move

lyncha 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

How old are you?

ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

mom acts like he doesn’t do anything.

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lyncha 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I think the best thing for you to do is probably leave:)My ma was abusive to me and I left:) I have been great since then:)

ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

lyncha- im 16 im gonna be 17 at the end of febuary

ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

the thing is i don’t know where im gonna go

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lyncha 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Talk to a social worker you can get into a group home or foster home. I went to both. You will age out at 18 and they have adult group homes for you. They have money for you to go to college to when you go to a group home or foster home but you have to talk to someone in social services.

ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (26 minutes after post)

i have a social worker and ive been to both those places before, but child and family work to keep families together to after a couple of months they send me back home.

lyncha 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Well you need to get back in contact with them and tell them what is happening that nothing has changed and he is still abusing you. They have to take that seriously and they have to do something about it if they dont they are held liable. I know this because I have been in group homes and foster homes since I was 11yrs old:)

lyncha 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (39 minutes after post)

I am 21 now and in college:)

Isobell 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (42 minutes after post)

i agree with lyncha, you have to let them know what is going on. Then they can help you properly. Don’t be scared to get yourself help and don’t be scared to tell people about what’s happening with your dad.

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ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

i am going to call my social worker its just a point of getting ahold of her, she’s only in the office 2 days a week.

Isobell 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (46 minutes after post)

oh how slack of them. Well stay strong and good luck with that, hope it works out for the best

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lyncha 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Your not limited to just that social worker that is assigned to you. If you can not take it anymore and the abuse is too much you can tell your therapist what is going on and ask for immediate help she or he will provide you with help and from the looks of it I think there would be no problem from getting help with your therapist what ever you tell him or her they are then obligated to help you if not they are held liable. Where there is a will there is a way be persistent and you can get yourself out of that situation believe me I have:)

~Shie~ 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 56 minutes after post)

ashelyexquisite wrote:
mom acts like he doesn’t do anything.

abuse in any case is always hard… as for mom not acting like she sees this going on… its part of the denial process… i am a ten year domestic violence survivor… and denial is a huge factor in this situation… im so sorry hun…. do you have any family that you can live with?

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ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 hours, 56 minutes after post)

not family no the only family that i could lives about 3 provinces away from me.

~Shie~ 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 hours, 20 minutes after post)

aawwwww…. how old are you? do you have any friends that you could possibly live with? im sure if their parents knew about the things that were going on… they would surely help..

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ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (19 hours, 2 minutes after post)

my parents don’t care

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ashelyexquisite 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (20 hours, 20 minutes after post)

oh i don’t know.

~Shie~ 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i think she meant your friends’ parents.

i did ,… thanks anon…

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pecuthber 0 #
Rochester, NY, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

how much do you trust your therapist? that is very important. do you trust your therapist more than your parents?

Whitney*Lou 1 #
Tyler, TX, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Yeah I think it would be best for you to move out.

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