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How do I fix a heart without breaking another?

I had left this girl last year and it broke my heart and I believe hers. I am now with a different girl and I feel like I still love the other. I dont want to break this new girl’s heart but I want to make things right between the old one. What should I do? I messed up big time. She is still the one I think about all the time but I have feelings for my current girlfriend. I need help!!

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blue.skye offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

well, just try telling both of them the truth. they’ll understand that better than anything esle. Just make sure that you know that what you feel for the first girl is real before letting go of the current one.

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rbiggs94 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Fort Wayne, IN, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Thanks I will try to talk to one another and think deaply about what I really feel.

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

Being exactly like that other girl you broke up with I can tell you where I am at right now… I was with my ex for over 4 years and he left me pretty much for another woman. I don’t hate my ex but I don’t really care whether he’s in my life or not anymore. I’m completely over him eventhough it’s been only like 4 months and well I definitely have no interest in getting back with him. I can tell you she probably feels the same way I do.

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