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wickedredangel
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Fagersjö, 26, SE

How do I know if I love him?

There’s this guy who’s crazy about me, and has been for over a year soon. But I have no idea if I love him:/
Durring summerbreak we got drunk and kind of made out, after that we didn’t speak to each other for a month and when we did it was really awkward, but now we’ve gone back to ‘normal’. but he still loves me, and I think some parts of me loves him too, but how do I know what I really feel?

please help me sort these feelings out!

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wickedredangel offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Fagersjö, 26, SE | 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

okei.___.
that has to be the worst comment I’ve ever gotten…

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Telford, O2, GB | 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i have no idea what to say im sorry, i think you would know, but i know what its like to be on the other side of this, basically the same thing happened to me, and if you have any feelings tell him, because i got over this girl, so yeh just look into your heart

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Fagersjö, 26, SE | 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

please stop commenting this post if you’re not gunna be serious

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*Lilly!* offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (21 minutes after post)

If you want to know if you love him, just think about all the times you’ve had. If you’ve ever felt special when you’re around him, then yeah, you’re definatly in love.

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wickedredangel offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Fagersjö, 26, SE | 7 months ago (22 minutes after post)

okei, thanks, I’ll try that

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wickedredangel offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Fagersjö, 26, SE | 7 months ago (31 minutes after post)

and ‘hahaha’, please stay out of this

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*Lilly!* offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

you’re welcome

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Brighton, P6, GB | 7 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Ask yourself, when he hasn’t rang you or text you, do you stare at the phone, and wish he would ring, do you think of him before you go to bed and first thing in the morning, how many times a day do you think of him. Do you miss his smile, do you miss his voice, do you miss him when you are not around him, think of all the feelings that you go through, and if you go through the above that i have mentioned, then girl yes, you do love him.

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Fagersjö, 26, SE | 7 months ago (45 minutes after post)

gawd…all that about the phone and I do think about him before I fall asleep(though I usually somehow end up crying when I do) And I do miss him durring the dull days in school..Does that mean that I love him then?

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Uniondale, NY, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

i been seeing this guy for 1 month now and
he makes me feels so good when i’m with him.
i love every thing about him ,i just want to
stay with him for ever. then he asked me
how i feel for him and i said i dont know.i mean
i do know but i just don’t know how to say it.

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Hackney, E8, GB | 6 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

Ok, it’s hard but try not to call him or see him for 2-4 days, if u miss him or think about him once then you love him too. cuz I am having similar situation.

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

if u love him ul do anything for him wen u see him u feel all funny. when he hugs u ul go all weird inside!

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