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My boyfriend get’s angry with me when I get jealous and upset.

If he truely loves me, shouldn’t he reassure me instead of yell at me?

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zampanti offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

A. you shouldn’t get jealous and upset
B. he might start yelling at you, if you point enough wrong fingers

Just a thought

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Annchan offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

I do get upset - he watches other girls - fantasizes about a group thing - though he says he wouldn’t go through with it because it would hurt me. He starts yelling at me at the slightest mention that I’m upset- often jumping to the conclusion that I’m accusing him for something when I’m not.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 3 years, 5 months ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Take this advise, PLEASE! Leave him along! Be your own person and allow him to be his own person. The greatest thing that I EVER learned in my life, was that it is my responsibilty to only take care of myself. It is NOT my responsibility to take are of others. Be secure in yourself. If he gets another person, so what…….Life goes on…Don’t make yourself miserable about worrying about something that you have NO control over. Only worry about what you can control. It will give you a GREAT PEACE OF MIND…Other people are attracted to people who are secure in themselves. He will be also….When he finds out that you will be happy with him or without him, that gets their attention….

Good luck…..be strong in yourself……..

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kt172 offline Verified User (3 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

if it is jealousy over him then remind him that jealousy is a compliment to him because you care for him so much you don’t want him to be someone else’s. but if he gets angry at you for things that you think are wrong then….it may be time to move on to the next guy

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (3 years, 2 months after post)

my boyfriend has a “girlfriend” on the game second life, it makes me angry and jealous but when i go to talk to my boyfriend about it he tells me it’s only a game and i’m stupid for being jealous. Then instead of offering to “break up” or take off the label he tells me to leave. It makes me so sad that he doesn’t care enough about me after almost 2 years of dating. I love him and he loves me but i can’t help being jealous even if i’ve seen her picture and I know she’s nothing to be threatened of. I think i’m more mad that she flirts with him. How can i stop being jealous, how can i tell him how i feel without having an over reaction?

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abcki offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 years, 3 months after post)

Well you’re probably making him unattracted to you because it’s weird when your boyfriend is jelous all the time.

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