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I am having a major problem..

i need help!!!! i got taken away from my parents by the court and i am now in a freaken group home!!! i am going to court Feb. 18 to see if i get to go home. the girls are about to be the death of me. i am trying to stay strong but its not easy. ran away from my house 2 and i get 2 charges placed on me. my parents said that they were only trying to get me help and never thought nor dreamed this would happen. i turn 18 in 189 days and i don’t wana stay here. the girls are trying to bring me down and i’m not going to let them. i quit cutting 6 months ago. and i am having a hard time with that. i wana but i’m fighting it HELP!!! please i am asking for help
mercy

the girls are living with me in the group home
i also just accepted God in my life and i was the biggest step i made and it seem a lot his not there i read me bible all the time and go to church. i just got saved and it was a powerful thing. i was unto witchcraft and devil worship for a very long time and hated god for being raped and watch me best friend die in my arm but i am trying to go on but it doesn’t feel like his really there all the time

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ReBuildingALife offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Who are the girls?

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krumins offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

not much yo can do 189 days seems like long time its really not stay strong things happen for a reason this will pass never give up hope

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I am having a major problem.. i need help!!!! i got taken away from my parents by the court and i am now in a freaken group home!!! i am going to court Feb. 18 to see if i get to go home. the girls are about to be the death of me. i am trying to stay strong but its not easy. ran away from my house 2 and i get 2 charges placed on me. my parents said that they were only trying to get me help and never thought nor dreamed this would happen. i turn 18 in 189 days and i don’t wana stay here. the girls are trying to bring me down and i’m not going to let them. i quit cutting 6 months ago. and i am having a hard time with that. i wana but i’m fighting it HELP!!! please i am asking for help
mercy

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~emo_blobs~ edited this post 1 year, 10 months ago. Read the previous text »

I am having a major problem.. i need help!!!! i got taken away from my parents by the court and i am now in a freaken group home!!! i am going to court Feb. 18 to see if i get to go home. the girls are about to be the death of me. i am trying to stay strong but its not easy. ran away from my house 2 and i get 2 charges placed on me. my parents said that they were only trying to get me help and never thought nor dreamed this would happen. i turn 18 in 189 days and i don’t wana stay here. the girls are trying to bring me down and i’m not going to let them. i quit cutting 6 months ago. and i am having a hard time with that. i wana but i’m fighting it HELP!!! please i am asking for help
mercy

the girls are living with me in the group home

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ReBuildingALife offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

why does that keep being put up?

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~emo_blobs~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

what

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1 year, 10 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Ask to be placed in the THPP (transitional housing placement program). Youth live on their own in an apartment with another youth. This way you will only have to live with one other person. Youth in these programs are chosen based on them showing responsible behavior.

Ask to talk to the ILP (independent living program coordinator). They can move you to a lower level of placement, perhaps in a foster home.

If you want to return home but there are problems, tell your social worker you want wraparound services. Wraparound puts the youth back at home and gives the family the support they need to make things work. Type “wraparound” in google for more information.

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theorignalemobunny offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Kingston Upon Hull, G6, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (44 minutes after post)

it seems like you have been throught a lot, you should try not to start cutting and it is a good thing that you have found God it helped me alot when i accepted him.
I am sure that you would be able to move you running away isnt an option but talking to the people who are in charge of this whole thing might get it solved tell them you want to move.

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ascendingheigh offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (57 minutes after post)

Hell. God is always with you no matter if you feel Him or not. The world teaches us to base decisions based upon how we feel, but God says to base our decisions not on what we feel but what we cannot see which is faith. Don’t give in to hopelessness. I was addicted to drugs, men and even went to prison 2 years ago and God pulled me out of a 3 year sentence and I did only 8 months of time.Keep praying and ask God to give you direction and he will. I am praying for you right now. I love you and believe in you.. Mandie

ascendingheigh offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (58 minutes after post)

That was supposed to say hello. Typo, sorry. Mandie

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~Starlight~ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Beirut, 04, LB | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

wow ! ~emo_blobs~ ..seems like you’ve been though a lot lately …well this proves that you’re a strong person ..dont let the girls bring you down , stick to your faith . You got through something which is bigger than this , you got through the devil worshiping , and thats a major step. Silly girls should have no affect on you ….keep hanging in there …Stick to your faith …youve came a long way , dont let it go :)….stay strong:)

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Garland, TX, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

Y would u run away. that is a very stupid thing to do. don’t u know that running away could throw u jail!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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~emo_blobs~ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

thanks mandie:0) lol i am also so proud of you and i was in juvie for 15 days
thanks and mandie i would like to say thanks!! love ya too

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nicolehalex offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 days, 8 hours after post)

189 days really seems like a long time but it is not be strong and keep god with you and you’ll pull through!!!!!!! we will pray for you!

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