Love help: i’ve been dating this guy for over 6 months now, and i love him to death, but my mom is trying to keep us from each other. - Help.com

just call him & meet him somewhere close to you & him as well or somewhere you can go to by bus or taxi .

wait. arent you 15?

hm…..he is engaged and you love him to death ?!lol yea art you 15 sry but thes is just a kids love

Why don’t you sit down with your mum & talk may be she has a point ?

No advice…but I will give you my story.

I met my ex husband at the age of 21 on a blind date, dated for a year and got married. MY mother did not want me to get married to him based on a feeling she had about him. i fought her tooth and nail and KNEW I KNEW better.

I didn’t listen, got married, my mother accepted him into the family as did the rest of my family.

17 years later I divorced that man for being emotionally and physically abusive to me. HE never showed a sign of it that I could see. The abuse became horrible about 10 years ago (very few know how bad). My mother could see it before I even told her…why? She lived that way with my father.

Mom’s…they have those gut feelings - not always right/wrong. Just make sure you take it under advisement, look deeper into the situation and trust and listen to every instinct that you have. As a mom I too, can ’see’ stuff before it happens.

It’s a gift of love.

Engaged after 6 months? Wow, that’s pretty fast. Well…at 15, there isn’t much you can do about your parents, they still have full control of your life. I’m really sorry to hear that they are doing that to you though. You might just need to wait this thing out. Also, maybe re-think what it means to be engaged and getting married. There are a LOT of things that might skip the mind just because you love someone. I hope things improve.

Well, what about your father?

kathyy wrote:
if i sit down adn talk to my mom.. everything i say sh’e throw out of porportion and throw it back in my face

Ok, I am saying this and leaving this post…

15 and everything you say your mom throws back in your face and you say this after saying you are mature…Not so much are you?

:)

Have you told her this?

kathyy wrote:
i hate talking to her though…she flips out and she hasn’t been herself lately

It seems to me like a few things that need to happen, haven’t happened yet. First of all, it sounds like yes, your mother needs to get a grip on herself. But you need to focus more on yourself right now. Realize everything you’re talking about. Do you have a job? Does your finance have a job? Can you support each other? Are you seriously ready for marriage right now? I know I’m not, and I’m 21. But are you?

Look at the big picture here, before you start blaming people for things. Realize maybe why she feels the way she does. And also take into consideration what angles she’s coming from, and why she feels the way she does. Each side holds merit here.

You were dating for one month before you got engaged?

Meh…

Well hey, I can’t tell you what’s right or wrong. But that seems like it’s being rushed, A LOT. Everyone is different though, and what is right for you is different from me.

I think it’s good you’re waiting until 2010 to get married. But I still think the things I said 2 posts ago are very important things to consider and think about right now.