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Jesus Christ gave his life for you so you could live.

I know how you are feeling. I am dealing with some similar feelings now. It is hard to help when I have so many things I want to tell you.

If you want to spread your love you much go through some times of keeping it inside. Sometimes people are not ready for what you are ready for. You must try to find a way to spread your love without punishing yourself or the people who do not know better.

I didn’t ask him to.

try your best to look on the bright side of life, make new freinds. Maybe you need a change in enviorment.

what that other guy said,

and also, if you let everything wrong in your life effect you, you are no stronger than your greatest fear. why give in and let everyone win? so maybe not everything works out. and it sure as hell itsnt. but you have God, ( i am not trying to preach here so sorry if it sounds like that) and no matter that you say or belive, he loves you, and will always love you no matter what.

take steps to better your life.
talk to your parents. i hate to say that because my parents suck, but it really does help alot.
find friends who will love you and cherish you, true friends will never leave.
and do something important. make a diffrence, in the world that you hate, maybe just in someone’s life.

AND REMEBER, IT EVERYTHING I JUST WROTE SOUNDS LIKE BULLCRAP TO YOU,

you always have me…:)

You, you are the point. Do it all for you. You are worth it. WIthout the person you love, without loving parents, without friends, you are what matters. There is so many wonderful and great things about you. You may not know it yet but it is the truth. If you give up, you will never know the truth of who you are. So look within you and feel pain knowing it is coming from a loving and worthy person. You can heal that pain find your happiness.

Friends come and go. The other day my Mom read something about how most people don’t have even one life- long friend. The important thing is that you had fun with them when they were around, and if you find new friends you’ll probably have the same with them too. As for the burden thing, parents usually love their children unconditionally, and even if their children are the most stressful thing on the planet they still find it in their hearts to love us.

i’ve delt with that same question all my life, up untill i started taking zolft.. it helps…

Well…you sound like you’re on a permanent downer. You don’t seem to expect happiness to come into your life. The glass appears to be half-empty rather than half full.

Much of what you describe is about perception. We all go through times of feeling empty. My husband just died, but I’m not sat here feeling sorry for myself. I don’t feel cursed, but instead so incredibly blessed to have met and spent meaningful time with such a wonderful person in my lifetime.

About boys, we’ve all been there: dumped and unloved by the one person we would’ve given anything for. So fine. You met a loser, he didn’t deserve you…Move on. Yes, of course you should question why the relationship ended, because that will enable you to learn from the experience and not get hurt like that again. However, over-thinking things and cooping yourself or your feelings up is never healthy. Get out and about, mingle in your community, go for walks, meet friends for coffees. If you have no friends, go to a coffee place and read a book. Just get a change of scene. Listen to music, become a member of a local group/ society. Do anything to avoid being alone with your thoughts.

I also agree with Heather. For some reason, when all’s said and done, parents usually love their children unconditionally. They may constantly tell you off or make you feel rubbish but it’s only because they love and care for you.

if you can’t find a reason to live. be a reason for someone else to keep on living.

as a 14 year old i did not agree with family and me and my noyfriend spilt. i rebeld and moved out. did not speak to my parents for over 1 year and half then moved back in with them, 1 month later i bought a house with the guy i have now been with for nine years and have 2 kids with. i guess my point is you feel like your world is going to crash but it won’t what don’t kill you will only make you stronger. me and my family are closer than ever. i hope this helps i know it hurts now but give it time, and maybe one day if that person is the right one for you, you will come back together. good luck and god bless