Love help: I’ve been dating this girl for two years and it’s clear she’s all wrong for me. - Help.com



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I’ve been dating this girl for two years and it’s clear she’s all wrong for me.

We have very little in common, she doesn’t fit my expectations, she has had a very sheltered life, she’s afraid of new things, she doesn’t fit my ideal body type, she’s financially irresponsible, her parents are creeps, we prefer different climates, and we have different expectations of each other. The problem is, I love her. I can’t stop thinking about her, even though we’re not happy when we’re together. What should I do?

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nikkiluvsy offline Unverified User #
AU | 1 year, 10 months ago (45 minutes after post)

well… do you love her because you have been with her for two years? because i think, but i might be wrong, that if you do love someone you love them no matter who they are or whhat they look like and that you are happy with them. im sure you will be able to make the right decision

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the-beer-barro offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
AU | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

If you’re not happy when you’re together,and you have all those other negatives… let her go, man. I promise you will get over her, and rather than being miserable for the rest of your life, you might actually enjot the rest of your life!

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1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Is it real love or habit?

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meriengel offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Woodbridge, ON, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

That is not love. Love brings happiness.

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krisandmist offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

Oh this is a classic case of LOVE ADDICTION…………its truly a habit as above mentioned…get away from her to broaden your horizons…or stay with her and commit to love if you indeed have pro-fessd it to her.

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