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my boyfriends best mate, is acting really wierd

i don’t have a clue whats going on, but hes really strange when i’m with my boyfriend, i dnt think its jelously but i dont have a clue, i don’t really talk to him that much to b honest but its worrying me. its like he wants to become just like my boyfriend?!?! he gets n does everything he does, any ideas of whats going on?

thnx xx

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Perhaps he is just struggling with the whole adolescent thing…it takes a while for some people to find thier identities… :-) or maybe he has a crush on you….?!

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5 years, 3 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Hahahaha! This has happened to me before. It’s crazy, isn’t it?! Yeah, it’s competitiveness. In my situation, my boyfriend was very confident, intelligent and popular.

I presume his mate was his sidekick before you came along and thought the world of him. Maybe his mate fancied you for himself, he wishes he could be in his friend’s shoes and have the happiness he has. Your b/f’s mate probably has no girlfriend and this is probably adding to his inferiority complex, so he copies everything your boyfriend does to perhaps prove that he is just as good, if not better. Secretly, he probably envies your b/f and also thinks that by acting like your b/f, he’ll have the same luck as him in life.

If only life were that simple.

This would explain why the friend is perhaps a little clammy around you; he’s not too comfortable with you being on the scene for reasons cited above and maybe more. Also, he is vying for attention off this friend who is now more into you and is perhaps also jealous of you for being closer to his friend than he is.

Hope this all makes sense…that’s how I interpreted it at the time anyway…it is all a bit childish…but then who said that boys grow up?!!

Best of luck…

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.LIFE&&DEATH offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 3 months ago (6 hours, 57 minutes after post)

like i said to ya,, btw everyone the guy whos staring at her Bf and that hes my ex bf :) how great lol. but like ive said to you i tihnk he doesn’t like it either jack has everythink he wants or dominic’s get very fond of jack lol ashamed to say but it is a possibility you never know just confront jack i tihnk he may agree theres nowt else you can to except let Dominic go through this ‘’fase'’.

Always here for ya,, :)

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An Unknown Location | 5 years, 3 months ago (22 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Yeh we have been tlkin bout this and i think that he is either jelous of you or just jelous of jack either way hes jelous and he just wants to be jack because he sort of not in a gay way, he just likes jack a lot but dom is straight i know that cause he obviously wouldnt have went out with Katy over wise. We’ll talk about it in food

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 3 months ago (22 hours, 41 minutes after post)

thanx guys, n ye its really crazy!! ye probably they have known each other long before i came on the scene, n i hope he doesn’t fancy me lol kk jamie thnx everyone

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

three is a crowd.

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GayBoy2 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (1 year, 10 months after post)

Im guessing he has a crush on you…
or is jelous of your b/f…

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the-rapture201 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 years, 9 months after post)

Basically he wants to be like your boyfriend so he can get a gf like u

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