Love help: I’m wondering, will you ever stop missing someone you love or someone who you really believe was your soulmate? - Help.com

you will not feel pain every second but there will be some instances where you will miss the person but you will still move on.

yes , you will stop missinq someone you lovedd . but its qunna take ALOT of time exspecially if you still talk or see them , when you see them you might not even miss them once ina while .. jus deep down inside theres still feelings there. who knoes later onin life, you might become just good friends and have no feelings for him .. thats how i am with my first love , it took me 2 years too believe too fall in love again , and now im currently suffering cus of that .. but me & my first love .. theres nothing there. youll be iqht sweetie - jus stay strong . everythin in the end ; will be alright , if its not alright , its not the end .. and i learned dhat . i hope i helped you !

I was with my soulmate for 4 & 1/2 years. We have now been separated for almost 2 years. I haven’t seen him since he moved 1 month after we broke up. Sometimes I forget why we even broke up. I just know that I still haven’t forgotten him. I still miss him today and love him so very much. There are days I wish I could forget him and us because it just hurts too much. When you meet your soulmate in life, there is no forgetting them. No matter what. Somedays are good, but other days, all the memories come rushing back and the tears fall again. The pain will all resurface again when you find out they are engaged again, or even married. The good news is that feeling all of this reminds you that you are still alive. It makes me feel good in a way to know that I was able to open up and love someone with all my heart. Even if I never get to feel that way again, I was able to have something & feel something so special that most people never get to experience in their entire lives. Yeah it hurts, but, in my opinion, there is nothing else in the world that will ever hurt as much, and we are truly survivors because we are still living despite knowing the worst pain in the world.

soulmate.. wow. not sure i’ve ever met that one.. missing someone you went out with or were in love with? yeah. that passes. i know, it’s hard to believe. but after years go by, things change and even fade away. the funny thing is, your memory of them might change too. you might conclude overall that they were really sweet, or that you’re fine with them being a stranger to you..

keep looking for other good people out there.

look back fondly on those times and connections..

My soulmate, its been 8 months and I still miss her as much as the day she left, I mean we came back together after 10 years! Why Wouldnt I belive that she may still come back? But I have to face reality shes gone, We both agree that we are soulmates but she wasnt happy with me and I have to deal with it, Love doesnt go away you just have to push it down so far in you that you make youself go on … But it doesnt take the pain away , The pain just hurts less , I miss her so , But I know that this life I have now I have caused it, I could of maybe had her back but my selfish ways just continued to push her further and further, Now I cant even have her in my life as a friend. The next guy will be so blessed to have her she is a great woman and I am enivous of him I just hope that one day I will be happy and thats all that motivates me

Its funny, its been 4 years and a bit since we parted ways. She was my first and it is indeed true; the pain does subside but it never entirely goes. I’ve repressed it into my subconscious. And you know where it surfaces very often? In dreams. That horrible feeling of missing her, of losing her…its so vivid that I wake up feeling a bit out of it. As the day wears on, though, it goes away. The most tantalizing dreams are when her and I are one again only for me to wake up and find out that it isn’t so and hasn’t been so for very long.

I think in retrospect, she was stronger than me; women normally are stronger than men (emotionally). The best evening in my life I spent with her. The memories are so sweet that it hurts to think I may never experience them or see her in this life time again.

I wish I could move on completely, but it doesn’t seem too likely.

I have a fish out of water feeling … that’s the best way to explain it. I guess the key is to learn to live with less oxygen.

that’s how it feels

No- the pain or the desire to be with that person never goes away. Ever.

Just lost my soulmate i miss him so much, i would like to get him back to the way we where before but for years all we did was fight after fight. i miss what we had at the beginning.
Will the pain every go away.
How can i get him back.

well i be moving soon i am a 10th in high school, and me and my boyfriend been together for 6 months i don’t want to move, i want to stay with him, i love him alot, i want to see him again, what should i do

Every love is it’s own special experience. Revel in whatever that is for as long as you have it! Each love is unique unto itself. If it ends, time does heal all wounds. Take the best part of the experience and treasure it in your heart, grow from it, but also let it go so that you can be healthy and whole, the best YOU possible! When you get back to that center, that’s about the time something new and satisfying will emerge!

I think you will always carry that person in your heart and learn to live with it. The pain will subside, but i think if you have felt that powerful emotion you will always love them. It only happens a couple times in life. That heartfelt desire where the world is a different place just because you met the person. Terribly painful stuff…but beautiful as it awakens who we are and makes us look at life differently. Hold this person in your heart while you move on. Best of luck. Pauline

ya, its true…it hurts like hell to forget someone who is your soulmate..we usually think of her all the tym ..after waking up, while sleeping,eating, listening….and it is very difficult to come out from this…it feels like pain….but if you induldge yourself in doing something interesting..initially it would be very difficult but by the tym things will settle automatically.

Í loved someone alot nobody ever made me smile the way he did . Even today when I think of something he said it makes me smile.. So many things remind me of himwhich I hate the most . Why do I love him so much when I know that he never felt the same for me I was only a friend for him always. I want to forget him but so far it seems like its never gonna happen and I should just stop trying.

I don’t know if people actually can ever forget ………. but all I know when you feel love towards someone you it is the best and the worst feeling ever..

I met my ’soul-mate’ in 1988. She had 3 kids from her failed marriage. She became pregnant with our son in 1990. I did everything I could for her, supported her, helped bring up her 3 girls for 10 years. In 1999, after 11 years together, she just suddenly said she wanted me to leave. Our relationship was always so intense. We really loved each other. She said she always would and would always respect me. When I left I was heart-broken. I cried for years. In 2003, she came back to me for one amazing night. She said she’s been horrible to me cos she needed to convince herself she’s done the right thing, and said leaving me was the worst mistake of her life. The next day she was gone again. She’s never come back. We brought up our son (now 19) apart. She has only ever slagged me off and treated me like cr*p in the 7 years since. She has the cheek to ask for things every now and then, and doesn’t even say please. I am so heartbroken even now. She threw away 15 years of being so close. All these years later and I still can’t get beyond her. I feel pathetic. Because she came back to me once, I think I’ve been waiting ever since for her to do it again. But she never does. And still, cos of our son, we have to talk occasionally and pretend we’re friends. The grief just never goes.

after 12yrs, after she’d moved on & now married with two children, i am still missing her just like it was only yesterday we parted!
still my eyes get filled up with tears even thinking about it. 12yrs is a very long time to get used to something but unfortunately we can never get used somethings !

Soul mate means they are part of you. When they are gone part of you is “missing”

Trust me you don’t forget them, I’m tring like crazy to do it thou. I’ll let you know if it works.

huh…
i just spent countless sleepless nights now….
its been around 2 mnths….
i havent seen her….or spoken to her for more than 20 minutes in these 2 mnths.
earlier, we were like two bodies, one soul….
we were like unseparable….

i miss her so much that even breathing hurts…
coz i still have her fragrance with me….
everyday….
when i go to office… i see her (imagining… :-( ) almost at any place…
her smile, her jokes….. ohh GOD… it hurts so much …. please just take it away…..

i really miss her so so much….
i have read all of our 2000+ msgs… so many times…
i i just miss her….

cant eat….cant sleep…

tried everythng…

got myself so busy dat i cud hardly sleep for 4 hrs in 3-4 days in all….
nothing works….
everythng is ********….i just wish…. if i cud jst die….
its just way too much to handle anymore….

i dnt have the strength for a failed relationship anymore….huh….

plz GOD… if u exist….. just take all this pain away…. it hurts so much that i just cant stop it….

i wish if i wud just leave this country soon…nd never ever ever see her again… may be it wud help….
bt i doubt if i wud ever forget her…

I love this ine boy (nameless. Today waz hix last day at school because he is movin gto California. A first, i didnt like him, but now we became friends. It seems like the person you love and care for the most has to leave. But a true someone you love will ALWAYS be in your heart weathever you marry them or never find them agaain. You have to live with the pain and sorrw. And one day ypu just might not love them anymore but you will always cheris your friendship. Them leave or going away ,ight be the best for the both of you. Just keep your head up. You can always visit on keep contact.

aubreye wrote:
I love this one boy (nameless). Today waz hiz last day at school because he is moving to California. A first, i didnt like him, but now we became friends. It seems like the person you love and care for the most has to leave. But a true someone you love will ALWAYS be in your heart weathever you marry them or never find them agaain. You have to live with the pain and sorrw. And one day you just might not love them anymore but you will always cherish your friendship. Them leave or going away, might be the best for the both of you. Just keep your head up. You can always visit on keep contact.

At least I dont feel alone.
I have loved him for more than 20 yrs. I have married and have 3 children from my marriage. (cried on my wedding night) Never moved past the memories. Never.

I miss him intensely, want to share with him almost every day what is new, what I am thinking, or know what he is thinking. It is crazy how some days are so unproductive. I have tried to go without- even one time for 10 years. Only to breakdown and contact him again. God its awful.

I lost my soulmate 2 years ago in a car wreck and I still feel sick deep down in heart. This pain has never faded but it does happen less often. I would still to this day give my life for his.

i will always love kyle menog. but im trying to be happy without him. the thought that i’d never talk to him again scares me. but i’m gonna be fine. i’ll ask myself this question again in 10 years and see if anything’s changed.

No you will never stop missing your soulmate. A soulmate is unique from evey other person in your life. This is even sad to think about in a way, but you will never be able to love anybody else, ever, if you actually find your soulmate. Your soulmate is the only person that makes it possible for you to live in heaven on earth, and is also the only person that can have you go through hell if they are ever taken from you. Your soulmate is also the only person who makes it impossible for you to ever live again once they are gone. Sure, you still take up space and move around here on earth, but that’s just existing, that’s not living. If you have a soulmate, this is how much that person is to you. The is how much of him or her is a part of you. If your soulmate passes on, a big part of you is lost forever. A soulmate is the only person that means anything and everything to you.

I will never get over a person that I truely love, my soul mate. I have been in a reletionship with a man off and on for 16 years and we love each other deeply and when we break up we always seem to find our way back to each other. It seem as though we are connected on another level and it feel like we belong together and when we are apart I feel like something is missing from my life like my heart is not beating strongly and when we are together again I feel I am complete. my heart beats for him. There is not a day that gos by since we met that I have not thought of him. I think of him when I wake up and through the day and he is the last thing I think of before I go to sleep. I could go on and on. He has expressed to me that he will not stop pursuing me until he is 6 feet under the ground

No… After twenty five years, she decided she didn’t love me anymore…

Every morning when I wake, she’s gone…. Her smile, it’s gone… Her sleepy eyes , they’re gone…. I don’t hear her crazy laugh as she and my daughters dressed for their day… I even miss her mumbling in Spanish angrily when her hair or clothes didn’t come out right…

Every morning for three years I’ve gotten up, begged god to forgive me for failing at my marriage and to heal my heart. And by bedtime, I believe the hurt is gone… Just to wake up the next day and realize the hurt is worse, the pain more intense than the day before.

I feel myself shutting down. Where at one time I looked forward to each new day to see those around me, now I avoid everyone. It hurts to see my daughters cuz they r so much like her. No passion for life anymore, no compassion for others. I’m so ashamed cuz I know that there was a time when I wasn’t so … Selfish… Now all I see or feel is my pain… And I can’t stop it….

Hang in there Charles. Time heals all wounds.

i have loved someone for 10 months and we together have been thru alot we still have things going on but we still have not spoke i want him to make the first move.. advice on how to move on and get him to talk to me?

well when you had somone you really love somone its hard to let go…i know i have somone i really love and we are not together anymore but i still think about him and how life could have been with him.. the best way i forgot about him is just tlk to somone or just talk to him and let him know how you still feel cause just cause u think hes over you he may not be he may be still crazy about you… dont be shy to tell the person you love how you feel..whats the point of living when your not happy? the key to life is happyness and if u dnt have tht then whats the point think about it.. somtimes when you just dont tell anyone it builts up in you and you brake down..its like scearming and no one can hear u its like fire going through your body and for the heak of it you cant stop crying…take my idvice i know how it feels to love somone and not know how thay feel about you

Hello Anas, maybe I can help with that question. I lost my soulmate years ago. Over 20 years ago to be more precise. Till this day, I have never stopped missing her. I know that I am going to get the usual crap from the “get over it”, the “You’ve missed her long enough”, “quit living in the past”, and the usual garbage from a majority of people who have never lost a significant other themselves.

I have even tried to deal with this situation like most of these people say I should. The thing is, that doesn’t work. I have had two really short relationships after my soulmate passed away. These didn’t work out, and it was neither one of these lady’s fault. I was alway me. In both of these relationships, I was still all alone, even though I was with someone. I now know that it was because I was no longer with my soulmate.

Hindsight being 20/20, I also now know that l could have had relationships with 2,000 women and half of me would still be gone. I will never be whole again, and this wasn’t fair to these two other lady’s, so I think it was best for them that these relationships didn’t last.

The thing is, your soulmate is a part of you. When that person is no longer with you, you have just lost half or more of who you were. You have lost half of your heart and half of your soul for that matter. When two people become soul mates, neither one of them is complete without the other.

Time heals nothing. I’m sick of hearing that tired, old cliche. I normally don’t have high regards for shrinks either, but I have seen the DR. Phil show from time to time, and I know he has said more than once that “time heals nothing” and that’s exactly how he says it. I disagree with him on almost everything, but this is the one thing that I actually side with him on. I don’t know who came up with that phrase, but there is no validity to that statement what-so-ever.

While I am no longer shedding tears 24/7 like I did when she first passed away, I can tell you that there are still times were I grieve just as heavily and feel the unimaginable pain like I felt when she was first taken from me. After all of this time, I can honestly say that to this day, there hasn’t been a single day where I haven’t thought of her.

I often feel that I am really not living. I am just existing, and that’s not the same as living. This is how much a part of me she was, and how much she meant everything to me.

I often think that god has sent me to hell without even waiting for me to die first. That’s how great the pain is when you lose your soulmate. In all of my life, I have had more than my share of both physical and emotional pain, and I can tell you that there is no other pain in existence that feels as strong and relentless as the pain you get when you lose your significant other.

I know this probably doesn’t make you feel better at all, but maybe I was able to help you figure some things out. I think I can related to your situation having been through the same problem that you are facing.

No, you will never stop missing your soulmate. Hopefully, you’ll find some things that will give you some joy and a sense of purpose. I am so sorry for your loss, and you definitely have my condolences.

Need help I just met back up with my soulmate , we had a nice dinner at a mutual friend home, we laid everything out on the table that was going on with us for the last 15 years. I’m in a divorce and he had me thinking for years that he was married, it that night he confess that he wasn’t married. He told our mutual friend that I’m the reason he never gotten married because he was waiting on me . After we begin to talk on the phone , email and text for a week . Then we end up spending the weekend together and we made love the whole weekend but on that following Monday he said that he couldn’t make me happy and he has a lot of issues and wanted to live alone. Tis really hurt me to the core, because the whole week before he made a lot of promises. I seriously figure that he got a look at happiness and became fearful. Out of hot emotions I told him that he told me all those lies to get me into bed he became angry and said everything he said and done was from his heart and true
Now he want answered my text nor phone calls !! I’m confuse!
I need to know how can I get away from his grasp
Please help me to escape my soulmate

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