Love help: I’m wondering, will you ever stop missing someone you love or someone who you really believe was your soulmate? - Help.com

you will not feel pain every second but there will be some instances where you will miss the person but you will still move on.

yes , you will stop missinq someone you lovedd . but its qunna take ALOT of time exspecially if you still talk or see them , when you see them you might not even miss them once ina while .. jus deep down inside theres still feelings there. who knoes later onin life, you might become just good friends and have no feelings for him .. thats how i am with my first love , it took me 2 years too believe too fall in love again , and now im currently suffering cus of that .. but me & my first love .. theres nothing there. youll be iqht sweetie - jus stay strong . everythin in the end ; will be alright , if its not alright , its not the end .. and i learned dhat . i hope i helped you !

I was with my soulmate for 4 & 1/2 years. We have now been separated for almost 2 years. I haven’t seen him since he moved 1 month after we broke up. Sometimes I forget why we even broke up. I just know that I still haven’t forgotten him. I still miss him today and love him so very much. There are days I wish I could forget him and us because it just hurts too much. When you meet your soulmate in life, there is no forgetting them. No matter what. Somedays are good, but other days, all the memories come rushing back and the tears fall again. The pain will all resurface again when you find out they are engaged again, or even married. The good news is that feeling all of this reminds you that you are still alive. It makes me feel good in a way to know that I was able to open up and love someone with all my heart. Even if I never get to feel that way again, I was able to have something & feel something so special that most people never get to experience in their entire lives. Yeah it hurts, but, in my opinion, there is nothing else in the world that will ever hurt as much, and we are truly survivors because we are still living despite knowing the worst pain in the world.

soulmate.. wow. not sure i’ve ever met that one.. missing someone you went out with or were in love with? yeah. that passes. i know, it’s hard to believe. but after years go by, things change and even fade away. the funny thing is, your memory of them might change too. you might conclude overall that they were really sweet, or that you’re fine with them being a stranger to you..

keep looking for other good people out there.

look back fondly on those times and connections..

My soulmate, its been 8 months and I still miss her as much as the day she left, I mean we came back together after 10 years! Why Wouldnt I belive that she may still come back? But I have to face reality shes gone, We both agree that we are soulmates but she wasnt happy with me and I have to deal with it, Love doesnt go away you just have to push it down so far in you that you make youself go on … But it doesnt take the pain away , The pain just hurts less , I miss her so , But I know that this life I have now I have caused it, I could of maybe had her back but my selfish ways just continued to push her further and further, Now I cant even have her in my life as a friend. The next guy will be so blessed to have her she is a great woman and I am enivous of him I just hope that one day I will be happy and thats all that motivates me

Its funny, its been 4 years and a bit since we parted ways. She was my first and it is indeed true; the pain does subside but it never entirely goes. I’ve repressed it into my subconscious. And you know where it surfaces very often? In dreams. That horrible feeling of missing her, of losing her…its so vivid that I wake up feeling a bit out of it. As the day wears on, though, it goes away. The most tantalizing dreams are when her and I are one again only for me to wake up and find out that it isn’t so and hasn’t been so for very long.

I think in retrospect, she was stronger than me; women normally are stronger than men (emotionally). The best evening in my life I spent with her. The memories are so sweet that it hurts to think I may never experience them or see her in this life time again.

I wish I could move on completely, but it doesn’t seem too likely.

I have a fish out of water feeling … that’s the best way to explain it. I guess the key is to learn to live with less oxygen.

that’s how it feels

No- the pain or the desire to be with that person never goes away. Ever.

Just lost my soulmate i miss him so much, i would like to get him back to the way we where before but for years all we did was fight after fight. i miss what we had at the beginning.
Will the pain every go away.
How can i get him back.

well i be moving soon i am a 10th in high school, and me and my boyfriend been together for 6 months i don’t want to move, i want to stay with him, i love him alot, i want to see him again, what should i do

Every love is it’s own special experience. Revel in whatever that is for as long as you have it! Each love is unique unto itself. If it ends, time does heal all wounds. Take the best part of the experience and treasure it in your heart, grow from it, but also let it go so that you can be healthy and whole, the best YOU possible! When you get back to that center, that’s about the time something new and satisfying will emerge!

I think you will always carry that person in your heart and learn to live with it. The pain will subside, but i think if you have felt that powerful emotion you will always love them. It only happens a couple times in life. That heartfelt desire where the world is a different place just because you met the person. Terribly painful stuff…but beautiful as it awakens who we are and makes us look at life differently. Hold this person in your heart while you move on. Best of luck. Pauline

ya, its true…it hurts like hell to forget someone who is your soulmate..we usually think of her all the tym ..after waking up, while sleeping,eating, listening….and it is very difficult to come out from this…it feels like pain….but if you induldge yourself in doing something interesting..initially it would be very difficult but by the tym things will settle automatically.