Love help: I’m wondering, will you ever stop missing someone you love or someone who you really believe was your soulmate? - Help.com

I’m wondering, will you ever stop missing someone you love or someone who you really believe was your soulmate?

(no they didn’t treat me wrong in any way it’s just the phase of life =) ) you may get over it, but will you ever stop missing them?

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'Bell offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

I think you do, when you fill the void that they left, be in with someone else, or your own happiness

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phunster offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Waikawa, 00, NZ | 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

No, IMHO. Otherwise it was just a crush…

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Emilie T offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I don’t know :-( I hope I never have to know, It makes me feel sad that anyone would have to go through that…but it is life of course :-)

But ..if i did,..no I wouldn’t stop missing them…with soulmates, in some ways i think, they don’t really go anywhere. It’s like loosing someone who has passed away but is in your heart every day, that energy of love remains.

A soulmate is a bond that isn’t broken by distance or seperation. It is even stronger from it maybe.
But hell no!! You would never stop missing them!! the pain just turns to something else…

I hope :-)

Are you o.k ?

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

No. They will always be in your heart.

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Prestwich, L5, GB | 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

you would never get over the loss but would learn to live with it. a soulmate is someone you cant live without, they are in your heart and mind always. a soulmate is the other half of your essence and without them your are incomplete. love like that will last a life time and beyond

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An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (21 minutes after post)

you will not feel pain every second but there will be some instances where you will miss the person but you will still move on.

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Anas offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I’m good :O) it’s been quite some time lol just still miss them I mean it hurts but hey life can be a ***** huh. I just suddenly started wondering :)

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Anas offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Don’t think i’ll ever stop it either..

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Xx Alicia xX offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Hereford, F7, GB | 7 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

no hun you never can stop missing them i still miss someone i lost in my family even though i didnt know him all that well and you will always think about them from time to time

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
Littleton, CO, US | 7 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

It’s a big world full of possibilities that can defy our expectations. One possibility I can imagine is someone waking up one morning and realizing that they no longer miss their missing soulmate in the slightest.

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Lissa_Rae200 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Irvine, CA, US | 7 months ago (6 hours, 49 minutes after post)

really… I don’t think so. When you find someone that has made that big on an impact on your life its hard to let go of all of that… And some carry it for the rest of thier lives

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Xx Alicia xX offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Hereford, F7, GB | 7 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

i agree with lissa_rae200 you can put things to the back of your mind but your not gunna forget them
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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

you will never stop loving someone just because they are not in your life anymore. And it hurts like hell…

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

check out my post titled “to love a soldier”. I dated this guy about 4 years ago, and this is the impact he has had on my life…

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

The understanding of the human mind will always be a wonder. To actually forget how you rode a bike and the simple wonder of it is impossible and does not leave our minds…so to go one step much further and say..yes?-we can forget something as wonderous and beautiful as a person who has been inflicted in our minds in such a way to be loved or cherished is virtually impossible. It can be something as simple as a song or a place or even another person to remind and rekindle old thoughts.

Love does exist unfortunately, not always in a good way. Therefore..love is pain..and pain is a simple reminder that we are still alive.

Don’t forget this person…but most of all..don’t forget yourself, but turn the page and move on

Take that mental picture…and smile… you are someone and somewhere else now

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 months, 4 weeks after post)

You’ll never forget a soulmate…The love for that person will be with you forever and ever…They say that you get a couple opportunities in life to find your true soulmate…I think that a soulmate is the rariest for people to find..someone you contact with on so many different levels…someone you miss with all your heart and soul…someone you think about before you go to sleep at night and think about when you first awake in the morning…a song you hear…sites you see…when time has past..let that person know that you miss them..even if you never get back together…I will tell you this…that person also misses you!…I hope that everyone in life gets to experience the love you feel when you do find your soulmate…Its one of the greatest loves to ever feel. You will move on with your life and find happiness with someone else…but it will never feel the same way…

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

yes , you will stop missinq someone you lovedd . but its qunna take ALOT of time exspecially if you still talk or see them , when you see them you might not even miss them once ina while .. jus deep down inside theres still feelings there. who knoes later onin life, you might become just good friends and have no feelings for him .. thats how i am with my first love , it took me 2 years too believe too fall in love again , and now im currently suffering cus of that .. but me & my first love .. theres nothing there. youll be iqht sweetie - jus stay strong . everythin in the end ; will be alright , if its not alright , its not the end .. and i learned dhat . i hope i helped you !

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

I don’t think you’ll ever stop loving them or forget them; but the intensity will reduce to leave place for another someone.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

No, you don`t. Trust me. They`ll always be there like a birth mark. But if you can find someone else that loves you with your birth mark then it`s ok

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (5 months after post)

I was with my soulmate for 4 & 1/2 years. We have now been separated for almost 2 years. I haven’t seen him since he moved 1 month after we broke up. Sometimes I forget why we even broke up. I just know that I still haven’t forgotten him. I still miss him today and love him so very much. There are days I wish I could forget him and us because it just hurts too much. When you meet your soulmate in life, there is no forgetting them. No matter what. Somedays are good, but other days, all the memories come rushing back and the tears fall again. The pain will all resurface again when you find out they are engaged again, or even married. The good news is that feeling all of this reminds you that you are still alive. It makes me feel good in a way to know that I was able to open up and love someone with all my heart. Even if I never get to feel that way again, I was able to have something & feel something so special that most people never get to experience in their entire lives. Yeah it hurts, but, in my opinion, there is nothing else in the world that will ever hurt as much, and we are truly survivors because we are still living despite knowing the worst pain in the world.

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