Love help: so my boyfriend b4 he got with me was the other boy…he - Help.com

Tell the other girl to **** off.

DUMP him before he dumps you??? :/
he could just be wicked immature, so tell him. and if not, if hes a big boy who can take care of himself, then definitely dumppppppppppp himm.

(before he dumps you because this sounds like its not gonna be a happy ending)

Crikey, there is a hidden dilemma here.

Given the facts, there’s no question that you should give him an ultimatum and dump him if he goes back on his word. All or nothing should be what you ask for, plus no contact with her (being as you both know how she feels about him). This is as a minimum. And you’re going to need to stick to it if you value your self-respect. However, if/ when you do:

…it is quite possible that he will get back with her.

Your dilemma will therefore be: Why is he back with her? Is it because:

a) He had every intention of dumping you and getting with her anyway, or
b) You dumped him and therefore he had nowhere else to go.

Now this predicament is very hard to bear. I’ve had friends go through this and be near breaking-point as a result. You’ll automatically keep blaming yourself for splitting up with him. And you’ll miss him, cry for him and feel really silly for letting him go.

What you need to remember is this: No guy is going to easily settle for second best. In this situation, whoever wins was going to win in the long run anyway. It basically returns his freedom to him and his own free will to make a judgment of his own accord between the two of you. If you let him go and he comes back to you, he was sincere and loved you all along. However, if he doesn’t come back and instead gets back with her or goes to a 3rd or 4th girl, he never completely loved you, was going to hurt you in the longer run, so better you retained your self-respect and got out of there before being dumped.

There’s my opinion anyway.

I pray that your situation eases and wish you the very best of luck,

Farah :)

if he doesnt want u to tell her anythng then i think he still has feelngs 4 her.. **** um both… guard ur heart

“dispose” the girl who harasses you

hi panda.
It seems your man is not serious with you,you have to be careful.if you real love him,you might end up heart broken

Exact sam situation as what happened to me
Tell him to delete her from his life
Give him a choice…
If he chooses her
He aint worth it!

Porkchop?! Wasn’t it his mum that you told to delete from his life?

No…
I asked him if he HAD to choose
I wouldnt really make him
Thats just harsh