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kittenkabodal8
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Anniston, AL, US

Hi I just recently went through a lond divorce took

2 yrs out of my life, I was living in Motels for the past year and a half because i had no where to go I just got into a trailer me and my fiance found, no my fiance had nothing to do with my divorce. I meet him long after me and my ex were over. I had no credit to start with and my husband filled bankruptcy back in 2001 so now I have horrible credit. I can not get a loan, me and my fiance make very good money we bring home about 3500 a month, the problem is that back when I was injured on the job and we were living in a motel we took out some payday loans and pawned our car title. My bank account is in the hole and we owe about 2500 on loans and I need some relife. If I was making one payment of 300 a month i would be ok but we are paying like 500 every time we get paid which is every other week. I need 2500-3000 i can pay it back with interest. I have taxs coming up as well which I dont have w2 yet and i need the money like today. My fiance is stuck in GA with no money and does not have enough money for gas to make it back. I know what a hard thing it is to loan money to someone you dont know wondering if they are going to pay it back. I just want to start standing again. I need someones help. I do not know where else to go. Please of there is anyone out there who can help please i need you.

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cncsanchez9 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (26 minutes after post)

like hell i would help,I have been where you have have been and never had any help,work two jobs that will help.

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kittenkabodal8 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Anniston, AL, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Maybe I should tell you what I do, I reline sewers and culverts I work 40+ hours a week usually. I am a women working a job most men wont do, I do not have time to work two jobs I work out of town alot and If i had qualifications for something different I would. But you are entitled to your opinion, so thats none the less thanks for atleast reading my post.

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cncsanchez9 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

funny that you should have time to be on the computer

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kittenkabodal8 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Anniston, AL, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (34 minutes after post)

people are entitled to a day off besides it is raining here and we cant work in the rain against DOT regulations.

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kittenkabodal8 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Anniston, AL, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (37 minutes after post)

maybe i should rephrase what i am saying we can not be out working near roadways when it is wet it is not safe and DOT doesnt allow it for one the company would be fined and two I go in later today for a few hours to clean out trucks at the DOT yard but that is only for a few hours. Hard to work a second job when you are not home either.

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours after post)

Kitten you’re doing great—I know that it can be really hard to sort a divorce, plus the back lash of the divorce.

Have you tried talking to the companies that you are paying back on? Is there any payment negotiation you can do? Sometimes–some companies there are. Alternately have you considered looking at debt consolidation? Sometimes that helps, other times it doesn’t.

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Help me with: So, sometimes I annoy my Fiance, and sometimes he annoys me…either way, there are so many reasons I love him.

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