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I’ve made a bad career decision.

Now I don’t know what to do. I have no idea whether to persue my current career and lie on my CV or should I change career direction all together, only the possibility of getting a job I enjoy for the salary I require is minimal.

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 minute after post)

Welcome to the real world. How big is this lie on your CV?

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Anas offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

lie on your CV or rely? You know CV’s are SUPPOSED to tell the truth, would you go to a dentist who faked he was a dentist on his CV? Personally I wouldn’t.

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slinkydg offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

basically, it’s completely lieing about the job I have been doing for the last year…. so a friend said just put there contact and company details on my CV and they will help me out. but if they get caught there job is in trouble, plus I know nothing about the industry I workk in and any interviews I go for I don’t sound confident at all.

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slinkydg offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

its not lioking I’m lieing about my qualifications or the type of work I have done / can do. Just the company I lst worked at bit.

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slinkydg offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I’ll neve be able to continue in my career or get a good job if I tell the truth.

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Anas offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

No offence, but I still think it’s lame and it still means you’re faking your experience, which means if you get hired you’re doing it at the expense of others who really DESERVE the job.

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

But lies will catch up to you and sting you if you keep going.

Honesty is the best policy. I say tell the truth and work hard. You’ll get there.

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Anas offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Nobody just jumps into a good job. Work yourself up from scratch like everybody else does.

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slinkydg offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I’ve been working realy hard for nearly 10 years now… I am fully qualified, finally, and made this one mistake choosing to work for a rubbish company, I would really like to wipe the last year completely off my radar/CV.

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Anas offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

If they see the past companies you’ve worked for then you can tell them in an interview that you’d made a bad decision with the company you worked for the past year and that’s the reason for why you’re leaving it.

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slinkydg offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

true - that is the hard part, admit I made a bad decision.

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

More over, tell the potential employer that you are looking for a new challenge and that you are hard working and willing to learn. Do not say bad things about your past employer. The fact that you are looking for something else says it all.

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missconfused offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (46 minutes after post)

i think Bex is right, any employer will ask you about your previous employment, and you have to be able to be honest with them and with youself.

If you made a bad call, then tell them, explain you gave the job every chance which shows you are dedicated but have decided that it is time for a new challenge and that you think that you are ready for a new role.

I really believe that no matter who interviews you, everyone will have made a wrong call at some point, but the knack is to turn it into a positive by pointing out that you have gained experience from it.

Every employer wants to think that their staff are constantly improving and learning so if you demonstrate those skills in an interview i know you will be fine!

Good Luck

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slinkydg offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Done!! CV changed with small explanation in the personal profile section. x

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Well done you! Good luck with the job hunting. Work hard and you’ll get there!

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artjournalie offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 months after post)

You could just not put it on your CV at all. Leave the last year blank. Tell the interveiwer you’ve been working on finding yourself…

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christi offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

I would never lie on a resume - You may find your self in a dream job if you work hard at it for the next 2 years. I hope you job is getting better.

50% of resume’s have a lie on them somewhere - I have known many employers who have fired people or not hired them for lying - this is something employers do not usually tollerate.

Good Luck!

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