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when your best friend IS THE BEST..

but she hurts your feelings (more then once) and will never admit it or say sorry .. what do you do? just ignore right?.. it really sucks..i dont open up to many people and when your own best friend will not realize she has hurt your feelings.. it really sucks!

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Xx Alicia xX offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

tell your best friend how you feel and or get a new best friend one that appreticates you

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Xx Alicia xX offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

yeah thats a good way to put it lol

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rebel101 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

i have the same problem with one of my friends…they hurt me and they hurt me yet I still hang around them. it hurts when they wont see when youre hurting or when theyve upset you or whatever. now, i still love my friend but it is hard. hope it works out for you!!

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Just be less open with her if she can’t be fully trusted.

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Xx Alicia xX offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Hereford, F7, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (40 minutes after post)

yea itsmag is right dont tell her anything

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ooochies_coochies_la offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Raleigh, NC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Well, with my best friend I just come right out and let her know that she has hurt my feelings. We laugh it off and move forward not trying to make the same mistake again.

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proudparront offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (48 minutes after post)

well i cant tell her cause she says she didnt do anything.. but i will just be less open i guess.thank you guys!

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mistybay offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

proudparront wrote:
well i cant tell her cause she says she didnt do anything.. but i will just be less open i guess.thank you guys!

what was it that you were open with her about that has caused this type of response?

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mistybay offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 27 minutes after post)

itsmag wrote:
Just be less open with her if she can’t be fully trusted.

yes…it definately sounds like she cant be trusted…

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proudparront offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 hours, 19 minutes after post)

i am open with her about everthing. i tell her more then i tell my husband. but it seems senseless . if she cant realize when shes hurt my feelings or atleast apolagize for not meaning to that how can i share my feelings with her and be open about other things in my life.. i guess i am just to sappy, and sensitive and should just blow it off instead of cryng about it.. i never said she couldnt be trusted, i thought of taking advice about being more open with her about my feelings.. i guess i wont let it bother me anymore

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