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I’m male, and my best friend is female.

Do you think this could be damaging to my relationship devolpment? =S.

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star1 offline Unverified User #
Rochester, MN, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

i think it actually makes you seem more interesting and approachable to girls, just make it clear that youre friends so that youre not leading anyone on

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Not at all. I’m female and my best friend is a male too. It has nothing to do with relationships at all, nor will it affect them. I also think it’s a very open-minded thing to have. Who knows, in a few years, you and your friend may think differently about each other. Some of the best relationships can come from friendships.

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

well, star1, thats the point, i dont want to be “just friends” with anyone at the moment. Well, i still want to “just friends” to my best friends obviusly.

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

I think what star1 meant, is make it clear to the other females you meet that you and your female friend are just friends. So they don’t feel as if it’s a threat or an issue.

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Plasmarox offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

mm… i havnt had a relatonship for almost sixth months, and feel readty for someone else noww =]

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Well, love is patient. You can’t expect someone to just fall right into your lap at the instant you want it. It’ll come, go out and meet some people and you might find someone that you’re interested in having a relationship with.

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

i guess so. i feel lonely a lot of the time though.

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

A lot of times, people looking for love, don’t find it. Love finds you. You should never always just focus on wanting to be with someone, that drains you all of your energy, and then you get desperate, depressed, and end up dating someone you never really liked in the first place. Try taking it slow, don’t focus on it too much. When the right one comes along, you’ll know and let it go from there.

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

Yeah, i see what you mean. It really does drain. you all of your energy, and then you get desperate Sorry for delay my pc crashed.

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♥Miki♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

No, that’s ok. I’m not having good times with my computer today, either. LOL.

But yeah, it can be draining. I’ve been there and it’s not fun. The best way to deal with it is not to focus on it, try and fill you days, your time, and your thoughts onto something else. The law of attraction works only if you let it, you can’t bend it to your will instantly. However, eventually it does happen.

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

=]. Omg iust looking at the google sponsered links, and it said male & female urinal. i was like lmao, where did that come from.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

LMAO, I’ve Fertility Blend For Women on mine. Oh, and Female and Male catheters…

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours after post)

yeah i got that as well lol. omg…

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (21 hours, 36 minutes after post)

err no

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week after post)

No not unless ur future gfs arent understanding

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week after post)

haha, that was the prob with my last gf lmao
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smartblond112 offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

i think that is great that ur best friend is a girl. that means that u r open to other things. if u want to go for it do it.

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