friends help: I’m tired.

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I’m tired.

I’m just really tired of being…I don’t know, lonely I guess. As far as “my situation vs. the various crises in the world right now” I’m not badly off. I know that. I’m pretty much healthy, and I can afford food and shelter and all that jazz. So I guess I’m just wondering why I feel so horrible all the time.

It’s sort of like something in my brain just decided that I’m not supposed to be happy. Every other second I think about everything that’s going wrong. Everything that I’ve said that may be taken more than one way, or how I hate how I look. All of my good friends have moved away for the year for college or whatever, so I only get to hang out with them electronically which really isn’t the same. I’m also definitely not the type that makes friends easily. So I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this.

And even if I did tell my friends, yeah, I’m sad, wouldn’t that just make them feel bad about leaving(which, by the way, I did last year). I don’t know, I just needed to say some of this stuff I think. It’s been getting me really really down.

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Nyx 26 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I know those feelings. I’ve struggled with them most of my life, too.

We do deserve to be happy. If someone misunderstands us, it is not our fault if we did what we could to convey what we really meant. Life feels lonely sometimes, but distance can be a true test of friendship that will show you who your real friends are.

Those are some of the lessons that I’ve had to learn. It can still be hard to live by them, but just to keep them in mind can be of some help sometimes.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Life can aften feel like that at time, we all have are good days and our bad, and sometimes those days just seem like an eternal hell.
But you have to try and look on the posative side of things, look for the good, you will be supprised at what you find, just trust in yourself more.

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Larry G 5 #
Washburn, ND, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Sometimes you just get into a rut and everything seems to be a rerun of life. Think about all of the things that you wanted to do in your lifetime. Pick one of the things that you never got to do and just go be adventurous and try something new. Visit an art gallery or a museum or someplace that holds your interest. If you have a car go explore a town where you have never been before and just hang out there for a day.

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Makati, 53, PH | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 10 minutes after post)

You need a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Simple.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Maybe both. You need to become happy with yourself before you will find happiness with some one else.

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