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tanya2731
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I am sittin here in my room…

thinking ..about..well….STUFF..
there are soooo many things I wouldve done differently…If God would giv me a second chance in ife..I would LOVE that…I just wish i could go back and erase the past….I lie awake at night thinking about all the things of done…and wishin i could change it..but the sad part is..I CANT….mom always brings up my past and it makes me feel bad….I kno wut i done was wrong….and i just wish she could forgive me….

I dont kno wut to do…im soooo confused…I need yalls help!!!

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tanya2731 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Greensboro, NC, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

aw thanku Anonymous..That really helps..:) ur soo encouraging…

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tricky offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 56 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

what’s done is done … u cant go back in time but u can start new … this is what’s so beautiful in life that everyday is a new day ,,, what’s done is done learn from the past but dont drag it with ya… tell your mom i know i went wrong in the past but i have learned from it … for this is why we all fall , but he stand up again :)… 2day is a new day , it is never too late to start on a blank page , a new chapter of ur story…

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tumble weed offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Waterloo, ON, CA | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

here… give this a try… maybe it can help

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

One thing that is for sure is that the past cannot be changed. You can’t sit around dwelling on regret. If in your heart you truly are sorry for whatever it was that you did, then that’s good enough. All you can do now is change the now and create a new direction for your life, one that you will be proud of. The fact that you’re still alive is your “second chance” you’re looking for. It’s never too late to do anything in life unless you’ve died and didn’t try.

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tinselthevampir offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Ashford, D3, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Hey, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve made millions of mistakes and wish I could turn back time every day.

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Arnday the Imbroglio offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
West Kirby, 90, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

if at first you dont succeed…….cover up all evidence you ever tried

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Nikki_d offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
Long Beach, CA, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 26 minutes after post)

so i don’t want to sound repetitive but I agree with everyone’s post. The past is where it belongs but don’t throw it away. Learning from your mistakes make a very strong and wiser person. Take what you know and what you have learned and build a bright future for yourself. As for your mom as my mom is very similar, be up front and honest and tell how you feel when she brings up the past. She needs to see the good that are doing now and not the bad that you have done in the past. Hopefully she can listen and understand. It’s not about her forgiving you, it’s about you forgiving yourself and realizing that you are a good person and you are taking the steps in the right direction. Sometimes for the parents the real problem is feel they have failed you as a parent. If you feel she is a good mother let her know that. Building a better relationship with her will only build a better you!
keep your head up!

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webjeff200 offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Chicago, IL, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

I guest everbody thinks about the past good and bad that’s life. Now do my best in everthing I do in life so I do not have to look back and wish If I had only did this or that.

But don’t look back offen, it like driving a car look at rear view mirror!

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