friends help: yes this is another post about boy problems.

BuddhaBelly

yes this is another post about boy problems.

but i really need someone elses opinion besides my own and my best friend.

so first of all, there is this guy that goes to my school and he was new this year but over the 5 or 6 months we have been in school we have become friends. the thing is i like him. i just started liking him a week or so ago and of course i told my best friend. she told no one but keeps hinting at it whenever i am around him.

he always pokes me or hugs me or finds some way to touch me and talks to me more than my best friend even though me and her are constantly together and he is friends with both of us. i think he likes me but then

when i and my friend started hinting that i liked him he seemed to get scared and doesnt hug me or hang out with me as much any more.

do you think that i freaked him out by showing that i like him? tomorow i am going to spend a little less than 8 and 1/2 hours together so i would like to know what to do.

~~thanks

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manifoldcuriosit 3 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 minutes after post)

well, i’m a guy.. but if I were you I’d kiss him on the cheek or something like that.. at a park bench or something.

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Larry G 5 #
Washburn, ND, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

I am not sure about this. He seems to be fine when both of you girls are together but you think he is stand offish when it is just you and him? Sounds like he doesn’t want to ruin the relationship by being with either one of you alone.He may like the chemistry that you girls are providing and is afraid that being with one of you will end that. That is just a thought.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

just tell him you like him

BuddhaBelly 1 #
Sierra Madre, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

lets just say that he would rather be with me alone than with her. and he defiently makes physical contact with me alot more than with her. like he never does with her. and he always sits next to me instead of her even if there is an open seat next to her he will stand by me.

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manifoldcuriosit 3 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

It for sure sounds like he’s interested in you.

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BuddhaBelly 1 #
Sierra Madre, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (33 minutes after post)

i am just not sure if he wants a relationship or not yet and am afraid to ruin it

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manifoldcuriosit 3 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (34 minutes after post)

you should maybe ask him little unassuming questions about stuff like that the next time you see him, i think you’d be able to tell a little better what he wants.

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BuddhaBelly 1 #
Sierra Madre, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (40 minutes after post)

that is really good advice. thanks manifoldcuriosit. i think i am too scared to kiss him so that will do. :)

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manifoldcuriosit 3 #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (42 minutes after post)

hehe, good luck! :)

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BuddhaBelly 1 #
Sierra Madre, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (45 minutes after post)

thanks i will need it. this whole thing just put me in a good mood because the other guy i like(d) just got a girlfriend. :(

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (11 hours, 45 minutes after post)

ask iof wants 2 b in a relationship right now, if not u would like 2 remain friends

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (11 hours, 46 minutes after post)

“iof” sorry thats an if

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 hours, 49 minutes after post)

he probally likes you but then gets a little scared knowing that you like him too and backs off because he is either unsure of what to do or is scared of the attention you are giving back to him

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BuddhaBelly 1 #
Sierra Madre, CA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 hours, 50 minutes after post)

haha. iof. okayy well here is the update. i just got back hanging out with him and he def. is interested. then again, when i give him the attention he backs off. i totally agree with you love to laugh. does anyone know a way to give him attention and not scare him off?

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crystalina 1 #
Marcus Hook, PA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

well, from my experience… if you pull away just a little then he will probably miss the attention you have been giving him and get scared enough to make a move!!

so pull away, just a bit… then watch and wait for his actions.

good luck!

xxoxx

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

i have a so called best friend.we have been hanging around eachother for quite a long time. all of a sudden, he doesnt want to hang out around me. im kind of sad about this what should i do? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

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