life help: hi…im living in indonesia.

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hi…

im living in indonesia. right now i have relationship with a man from france…he s a surgeon.
we already talked abt wedding…but it seems its only a dream. he couldnt be able to live in my country since there s no job as a surgeon here. while im working with government,,,n im not ready to leave my work n my live here. Im divorced. i dont know if i move to his country…i l find job over there… cos he doesnt want me just stay at home n wait for him come back from work:(

pls guys…help me… i wnat to know what im gonna do…what would i need to move to france…legally???
im so deparate…im about to loose him now

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babacup 31 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

If he is not helping to work out a way for you to come there, you probably should loose him. This should be something the two of you work out.

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Sans 333 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

are you sure you’re not being scammed? is he who he says he is? did you meet him over the internet? it sounds like you have a good job. are you in love or being manipulated?

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GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 19 minutes after post)

do you even know this man? it may be that he isn’t even a surgeon..explain a bit more

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dianperc 0 #
Jakarta, 06, ID | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

i v been visited him to his country once n met his twin bro family. his twin is a surgeon too. yes i met him on the net. he ve been visited me 3 times to indonesia. yes i have a good job here. i just too afraid of loosing what i got here for nothing. i once divorced..sounda trauma.once my marriage doesnt work,,i l be all alone in his country:(

we just make up again after 1 month he quitted me. but he s so cold and always push me…if i really love him..pls move n live with him. i only said gimme time.

pls what im gonna do… i really love him. just dont know how im gonna live my live here n dont know what will i do if i decide to move there. do u know how i start a live over there??? or is it possible to have ajob over there?? should i change my nationality?

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GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (21 hours, 3 minutes after post)

if he is pushing you, then you should be REALLY worried, once you move there, you will be in his control, please be careful, you sound like you have a good job and life where you are, give it some time, if he really loves you, he will wait but if you dont do what he says and he ends it then you will have a lucky escape

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