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I think everybody hates being fat, I wish all the fat on me was off also, but I just complain about it, instead of going to the gym membership I pay for every month.

I used to hate gym class myself and being picked last, but now that I look back, I was only picked last because I just hated participating in sports. It had nothing to do with my ability to play them, or my personality.

I used to go to a shrink. 3 different ones, actually. I hated them myself becuase I felt like they were there to judge me and what kind of person I was, that they wanted to know me because they HAD TO-because it was there job, and for some reason, I held that against them. They are just there to listen. It IS their job, but they enjoy helping people, not judging them. Now I wish I could afford to see one. Just to talk to someone who would listen and give me their professional opinion would be great.

Don’t be sorry, you’re just human.

:) Have a better day.

Summer dude it doesn’t matter what other people think.
YOU ARE NOT FAT

I agree with suc. No wonder you see a shrink… you’re bloody insane if you think you’re fat.

I think my brother’s seeing a shrink. Or he was… I haven’t really been paying attention lately. He was on some meds, but quit them cause he couldn’t get drunk while he was taking them…. lol

You can be fat and miserable or skinny and miserable. How happy you are doesn’t really have to do with your weight. Queen Latifah definitely isn’t skinny, but she looks like she loves her body and has a great time with her life.

Do something that makes you happy - watch a funny movie, read a book, knit - whatever. I hope you feel better.

If these things bother you so much then change what you can and learn to deal with what you can’t.

*** a Suc~fermata~hutb grants -Summer- the serenity to accept the things she cannot change, the courage to change what she can and the wisdom to know the difference. ***

You are not fat. Yes I have seen you… Well the top half at least. You hate lieing? That is a change you can make. Stop. See where the truth takes you. Hate people asking why? Tell them. They will stop asking. You do not like my answers. But you should try them anyway. You do not like where you are right now. Change it. You are falling pray to the devil you know out of fear of the devil you don’t.

I love you.

If you have a bad day like this again then call me! I will always answer you.

Listen to Sully. I love you Beata = ). You can always talk to any of us whenever you’re a bad day. You’re not fat. Tell the shrink everything, truuuuth, you don’t have to deal with it all by yourself.

~MILLIONS OF SQUIDGES~

Seeing a shrink doesn’t mean you are crazy so don’t be ashamed of it . If you hate going to gym so replace it by playing basket ball or any kind of sports with your friends or go swimming on your own , it is always fun for me .

I don’t know if you are really fat or you just feel fat but either way , I don’t care , my mum is fat & she is so funny , my friend is fat & he is so happy , dating a beautiful girlfriend , very successful & funny guy .. what I’m trying to say is it doesn’t matter how you look or how others think , what only matters is how do you feel about yourself ?

If you don’t like yourself so try to know why & change those things you hate about yourself , all mature people do that it is part of growing up.

(((hugs))) Hate is a very strong word indeed… how about turning it around, and into love instead? If you learn to love yourself, then, others will too, God gave you the gift of life, and it is up to you to fight for it. Others will belittle you, and ridicule you, and spit on you, cheat you and neglect you, hurt you and throw you away, BUT… You do not have to receive it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The good news is that God loves you !!!! That you are uniquely and wonderfully made in his image, and that it is possible for you to live a happy, and rewarding life.

Make up your mind what you want out of life, and go for it. Shake off the negative comments, and remove the thoughts that hinder you from being all you can be. Don’t entertain them. Rebuke them, and put them in their place, lift your head, and be proud of your self.

Do something good for yourself.. every day…. and give thanks for every good thing that comes your way.

Blessings…

beata i love you. **** the world. we can all run off and live like hermits and be happy lol
:)
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