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SorryImNotPerfect
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he loves me back!

finally we are going out!
everyone hates me! i think i have about three friends altogerher, and that includes my new bf, ollie, i love him! but his ex, sam, my old mate, hates me. she sends me death sentences and stuff. its actually quite scarey. wat do i do?

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Cole Becket offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Just give it time, she’ll get over it. It’s probably all talk.

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Zragon offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Broken Arrow, OK, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

as long as you and him are happy thats all that matter right?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

If you think she is seriously going to try something to hurt you or put you in danger. you should tell a teacher..or even the police.

i know your young but hun you cant take that chance…spesh todays society…and in london aswell.. do somethin before it gets worse.

she is just a ‘jealous ex’. they are usually harmless but once one gets obsessed..they need stoppin in their tracks and they need to move on. unfortunately you cant help her with that. but for your own safety you gotta stop this girl.

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theresape offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Waltham, MA, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

If she sends you death threats, call the police. Even if you don’t believe she would actually hurt you, she needs to know the seriousness of that kind of behavior.

After that, I’d ignore her.

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kalevolive offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Bloomfield, MI, US | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

If she used to be your friend, tell her that you are sorry that she is unhappy, but you don’t think a guy should come between you guys. Granted, there is a good probability that she won’t agree, but then at least you’ve done your part in trying to get along with her. After that, if the threats keep coming, either ignore them or report them depending on their severity. As far as everyone else hating you, you have three friends and three good friends is really good in my experience. If you want to get along with the others, simply make it easier for them to get along with you, than for them to dislike you. Personally, I would leave the option open for everyone to get along with you, but just ignore them if they choose to dislike you instead. It’s not your problem if others dislike you for no reason or over petty things. All it means is that they miss out on being able to get along with you, which is always more enjoyable.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

death threats? sounds like jealousy.
she doesn;t sound nice to be around. how does she send them#?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 10 minutes after post)

tell her to back off!

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Gîza, 08, EG | 9 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

Well If you Really Love Him And Cant Be Separated From Him I Think You Should Complete But Abt the ex I Think U Wait SomeTime Then If She Continous Just Threat Her Be Strong Bec you Didnt Do Any thing bad So Tell Her That You Dont Care And She Better Stop And That THings If She Complets There is somehting you can do report her and there is somehting police does that if anything bad happenes to you or you get hurt they will put her in jail till they find out shes not the one after what happened Dont Worry Love Is With You And Maybe God Too

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