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What is your opinion of me?

I’m curious what you all think of me, who I am, my personality, etc. Now, hopefully I’ll get a few kind replies, especially given all the incredibly kind people on this site. But, I am interested in getting critical advice, constructive critisism. I do not offend easily. :-)

I am just curious how I am percieved by everyone here.

Thanks much.

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Locke offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Niceville, FL, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

From my limited contact with you, you seem like a pretty decent, curious person who really tries to help. I don’t really know enough about you to say more.

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fletcher offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
AU | 1 year, 10 months ago (14 minutes after post)

You seem genuine.

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Thanks Fletcher, I try to be :-)

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Intelligent,deep and a joker(in a good way)I like you and your advice:)

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour after post)

i personally dont know you…. however.. im sure you are a great person.. and given time… maybe then i can give you the advice that you are looking for.. but until then…. hugs.

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online Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 560 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Hello Sags, i have not talked with you so with my limited knowledge about you, you seem to be a little silent and deep. ;)

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ndiscatseyes offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Well you know I love you to pieces honey! There is something that feels so warm about you inviting even….and for me to always have my gaurd up you feel safe its the way you word things with so much thought and care I find that so attractive most men these days lack those traits

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Cats: Thank you for that :-) I was actually looking forward to seeing what your thoughts are :-) I remember watching a movie a long time ago, when I was a kid. No idea what the movie was called, or even what it was about. But, I have never forgotten one single line that was said… Two girls were talking, and one told the other “you can do better, he is just a dime-a-dozen kinda guy”. I think it was a really bad movie :-) but, that one line struck me and right then (I think I was nine years old) I decided I would always strive to never become, or be thought of, as a dime-a-dozen kinda guy. :-)

p.s. There was a little fir on my leg when I woke up this morning… You wouldn’t happen to know anything about that would you? That was just a really good dream, wasn’t it?

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hotdog321 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 37 minutes after post)

I really don’t know much about you except for some of the posts/replies you’ve made. Judging by those, I’d say you’re a caring individual who is not afraid to give an honest and objective opinion to help others.

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snowflake048 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

you seem like someone who really has it together. you don’t get bogged down with the small stuff and really know how to treat people with respect and kindness. (i remember the post you made when your friend was coming home from a long trip and you made her a very nice homecoming, i think that encompasses you in a nut shell)
the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to me was “thank you for being the one who always notices” and now i’m passing that on to you because, as i’m sure your traveling friend would also proclaim, you do always notice and that does always make a difference.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Sag.. I’d have to guess you are a INTP (that pretty much says it all:) but I’ll elaborate. I see you as a very intelligent man. Genuinely caring, in some cases (one in particular) perhaps a bit too much. Not that we can care to much for another, but we can give of ourself too much to our own detriment.

You are obviously a firm believer of Jung (at least the Myers-Briggs which is basically Jungian psych) so you can’t be ALL bad :)
Bright blessings ~ Richard

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (5 hours, 48 minutes after post)

snowflake048 wrote:
the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to me was “thank you for being the one who always notices” and now i’m passing that on to you

Increddible… That is now something that I will carry with me as one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me. Really, that means quite a bit to me :-) Thank you.

Richard Cor de Lyon wrote:
Not that we can care to much for another, but we can give of ourself too much to our own detriment.

So very true! And this is something that I am very conscious of… And yet, even knowing it to be true, for some reason, I will often push that knowledge aside in order to ensure that (I feel) a person has no dought that I care for them. This is a weakness of mine, and is very selfish behavior. I’ve been trying to figure a way out of this particular weakness for a while.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (12 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Oh Sag… I didn’t mean to sound negative, nor did I want you to take it that way (too much anyway). Your traits are admirable. Just be aware, sometimes YOU have to come first.

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Saggezza offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Hey Jacquew, I tried sending you a shout the other day, but you’re account was ‘deactivated’ for some reason. But now you’re back :-) What’s up?

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

I think of you as open, honest, loyal, compassionate, and laid back. You replies are genuine and wise! You don’t seems like a man who would allow himself to be involved in too much drama.I think you are very brave to ask this question. It is a question I have pondered myself. This being cyber space it is hard to know how people perceive you. I would say that you are someone people here could admire!

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 days, 10 hours after post)

i think ur helpful and kind.

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hotdog321 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

Could you be asking this question because you’ve become a mod?

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Elly offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
New Westminster, BC, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 days, 18 hours after post)

you seem like a decent good-intentioned kind of guy. oh, and also very intelligent.

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mom4nutt offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 days, 4 hours after post)

you are very brave to have opened yourself up to a place where there are no consequences for posting mean things. Good for you and it seems to me that youa re well respected. i don;t knwo you so i can’t say, but my first thought was brave

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1 year, 9 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

except, what the heck is “fir?”

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

You remind me of me… only on a much higher level! I perceive you to be this intelligent, philosophical guru… and very helpful at that… and no, I’m not just saying that.

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downtowndaisy offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

I forgot to mention, I’m very intrigued…

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