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My boyfriend is really shy evn to me, his friends
always try to help him because he really wants to kiss me, I wanna kiss he too but I don’t know if I should make a move or wait for him to get the courage
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If you and ur boyfriend have a really great relationship, just go up and ask him if a kiss would ya know be OK or whatever. You only live once, so make your life the best it can be!!!!!!
that’s so normal to be shy dont worry im sure he will grow out of it just give him time.. and if you wanted to make a move do it just try not to do it infront of everyone cause he might not know what to do lol i know that sounds funny but just take it slow real slow start to get to know each other better so than he might not be so shy.. .just give him time he shouldnt be nervous or shy hes probley just not ready
u make the 1st move
i had the same problem, my boy friend was shy too when we first started dating. you just have to take it slow and he’ll grow out of it. he just doesn’t want to mess things up between you. you make the first move and just keep doing that, until he get comfortable making the move on you first. try not to kiss him in public the first time, because he might get nervous and not know what to do. Just let him know that you like/love him no matter what and not to be so self-conscious about himself when you’re with him.
he’ll grow out of it.
I am having the same problem with my Boyfriend. He is really shy, and has actually NEVER had a girlfriend before (but he has been on plenty of dates). But anyway, he is really shy and it gets so bad sometimes that he is even afraid to hold my hand! I do not take it personally though, and you should either~! The guy is just neverous and doesn’t want to do something wrong between you and him… Don’t take it as an insult that he isn’t kissing you all the time, but take it as a complement that he cares enough to worry about screwing it all up! This only truely proves how mad he is about you. SOOoooo to show that you feel the same way, get ALONE with him any chance you can and give him a litte peck on the cheek or something! This will show him that, not only are you ok with being only with him, but that you are open to trying out new things, AND that you care enough not to push the boundaries to much so you will only give him a kiss on the cheek. You see? I tried this with my boyfriend, and we are now doing WAY more than we were at the begining of the realtionship. lol Just show him you care! He’ll come around! lol
i ji ki ji ki ji ki ji kik
omg i having the same problem my bf and I are in completely different minischooolS!PLEASE HELP ME tooo. I hardly see him. We have been going out for 3 years and my moms okay with it soo… He is shy and i really wanna kiss him. I am soo in love with him. HELP me please
Still hanging please help
My boyfriend is a bit like that, sometimes me and him go and hang around the park with mates and we all asked him if he would hold my hand then he went bright red ov embaresment and he changed the subject, then when we were leaving the park with mates he grabbed my hand and we held hands! then i kissed him on the cheek i coulnt resist then he did a cheeky smile!
He went with his mates and said to us girls “Dont come over to us we are having a romantic talk” so we didnt then they came back and his mate reece told me what he said, he said he would but hes to nervouse, so then me and him (my bf) walked home and held hands and he said to me “i would kiss u on the lips, but when no one is around” but at that time his brother waz tere so we made him go awaya then he snogged ME NOT PECK SNOG.
So maybe that bf ov yours might not want to do it in publick, or maybe when he is not looking kiss him he cant stop u then!!!so just KISS him mate!!!!!!!!!!
gurd addvice ill use tha thanks if ya dont mind cuz i have tha same problem wiv my boyfwend :D x
i know its a very common thing.but ateast ure bf talks to u but my bf is so so so so dam shy that he does not even talke to me.i am fed-up now and guess wat i left my old bf because of him.i am mad at him but i dont know when my current bf is going to start talking to me………………………. i am mad at him and even he is.his sis told me dat.he calls me every evening but never talks infront of his friendzzzzzzzzzzz …………………………………………………………………. ………………………………………………………………… ………………………………………….
im having the same problem ,,. me and my boy friend have been dateing on and off and every time we have never kissed ,, i have been on lots of dateing information sites and they are all telling me to make the 1ST MOVE !!! but im shy aswell.
The thing is my boy friend wants to kiss me as well but every time it comes to it we both look away and chicken out .
next time your whith your boy friend ether -
. hug him and then on the wat from brakeing the hug just quickly kiss him befor he can react
. take him to one side and say can i have a kiss?
Just try it , it might work? ….
i have the same problem.. but because im not shy i will kiss him :P and i realized he was getting less shy and i told him that and he said it was all thanks to me because ever time i kiss him he gets less shy
i have the same problem, my bf and i have been dating for a lil over a week and he hasnt even held my hand! one of my friends tried to push our hands together but he pulled away… i think its bcuz he thot i didnt want to… but he hasnt had his first kiss so hes shy of alot of things… but im not rushing to kiss him but holding my hand or a hug when he leaves would be nice! helpp!
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