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i stopped becoming friends with a girl that was abused

by her mother because she lied to me and made me feel low, but when i look back on it i realize its my fault, i have too much pride to ever let anyone hurt me. we were so close and i trusted her and i just didn’t think it could hurt so much. she tried to apologize and tried to be my friend again and again. how horrible am i? i know i am, what kind of person leaves someone that needs you just because you felt used or whatever. it was last year and i still think about it. i miss her sometimes. before we had our problems she listened to me, and i felt a sense of trust that i couldn’t feel with my best friend, and i let it go because she broke it once. it seems that her life is better though, shes got a good boyfriend and a couple good friends. i just miss her sometimes. i don’t want to get hurt again, i’ve always been the strong person, the one you could cry on. and she was that for me,even if i didn’t really cry to her i knew i could. everyone thinks and knows its my fault that we don’t talk anymore. i want to say sorry. but i’m so ashamed, i just needed someone, anyone to know that, to know my side.

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Fitzgerald, GA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

swallow that lump of pride, it’s no worse than heartburn from spicy foods, rednek up and say I’m sorry, try and understand, ’cause friends are the best

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AU | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

You need to realise there are more people out in the world who want to be your friend. They are just around the corner so get out and meet more people.

Dont let people treat you badly or make you feel guilty. She has her own issues that she needs to deal with and i hope she tries to make the best of her situation. Look at Oprah winfrey, she was abused and look at where she is now. People can’t use that as an excuse not to find happiness within themselves and their own lives.

You choose how you feel about situations. Dont think about it anymore just move on and find things that make you happy. Focusing on negative things will just keep you low. Get up and get your life moving in the direction you want it to go!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 hours, 52 minutes after post)

you said that you have too much pride to ever let anyone hurt you . I think you sould replace the word of “PRIDE” with “FEAR” & this is why you are so afaid to call her again because she might let you down & reject you . PLease call her & take your chances with her , learn something called apologizing .

The strongest person on earth is the one who can forgive & the bravest person on earth is the one who admits that he have done something wrong & apologizes .

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