Love help: hey can you help me? - Help.com

well he needs to understand that no body is perfect were humans for crying out loud we all make many mistakes and we learn from them… and i know what your going through my last boyfriend we were together for a very long lime and we broke up like every month or less because of me and he would blame it one me and i learned that i wouldn’t listen to him anymore i was sick and tired of it….and yes i understand that you love him but honestly sometimes its not meant to be and i mean if you guys were then you will get back together and it doesn’t mean right now but in the near future….

thx kori i know u r right and i’ve always told him dont tell me i’m wrong u r not that angel that don make mistakes,and he always was answering i’m not an angel but i’m trying to b right,i’m really afraid to be away from him he is everything to me

ya i know but you need to tell him that you need to talk to him and sit down and have a mature talk and just explain and its not going to be a 10 minute talk it can last 4 hours or 2 days and just explain everything …that you love him with all you heart and you dont want to lose him. the two of you need to accept the fact that you made mistakes and work them out together and fix them.

people can’t change and no one can change you. we are who were are. as much as we promise we will change we just don’t.
we are creatures of habit and set in our ways especially as adults. I am sure he will always love you but maybe not in the way he loved you 5 years ago. the best you can offer is tell him that you recognize your mistakes and you want to fix them together but you can’t change who you are. and he has to realize that your past mistakes are past mistakes.

also another thing for you to consider is that this man wants you to change who you are. so does he really love you for you? if he does why are you always promising that you are going to change. a person should love you the way you are expecting that you are still going to be the same person in 15 years. just something i think you should consider.

good luck!

you can start you trials to get him back by get rid of all of the things that makes him reminded of your old attitudes,just start a new page and let him see how much you changed and you are serious in making a change in you, but just to know this thing!does anyone in this world are perfect, no one is perfect so he should help you out to be what you want to be but not to force you to chnage your persopnality , just it is the way you can earn his trust again.