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If it’s just a little crush get over it. Let your friend be happy. If you are serious about liking him, tell your friend how you feel and find out how she feels. Then work out what you should do from there.
does your friend know you like him?
Just be honest with your friend . I know it is hard, but you need to tell her that you had a crush on him. If she was really your friend, she wouldnt get mad at you. THen ask her how she feels about the whole situation
Get over it.
Why in the world would you want to tell her?
The fact that you “like” him does not make him your boyfriend. Suck it up and be a good friend.
If it doesn’t work out between them, then you might want to ask him out at some future time.
Meanwhile, keep your silence.
Hm… it may also complicate things with your friend, knowing that you like him and still do, it may make her feel a little bad that she is dating someone you like.
if he likes her… u cant make some1 likke u
You guys act as if the situation is so simple, but it is not, and I completely understand how you feel because the same situation occurred to me.
-You find it hard to let your friend know that you liked him as well, because you don’t want to make her feel guilty, and you don’t want to make her feel obligated to back out of the relationship just because you liked him as well.
-You feel bad because he chose your friend over yourself
-You try to let it go and put it behind you, but it is harder than it looks, especially if you really had liked this guy for a very long time and didn’t have the guts to ask him out
-Then you start beating yourself up for not having asked him out yourself before this situation occured
-(or something of the sort from what I mentioned above)
I guess from experience I would say that you should try to move on, and you never know–their relationship might not last, and then he might ask you out afterwards after they break up or you could ask him yourself.
Just live your love life out day by day, and you never know–you might just run into another boy that you like even more than the last one who won’t be going out with your best friend. That’s how i’ve been getting through it.
I have the same thing going on right now. Actually, I’m kinda young, but still. This guy i like asked my friend out, but she can be a suck up, so she told her mom. Her mom said she wasnt aloud 2 go out until 9th grade, so she said she couldnt. Even so, she still likes him and I think he likes her. I would be amazed if he waits until 9th grade 2 go out with her, but idk, he is a really nice guy. The only problem is, lately, he’s been hanging around me a lot and i dont know what 2 say if he asks me out. I really like him, but so does my friend, and if it werent 4 her mom, they would be going out rite now. Also, she doesnt know i like him, so if i said yes, she would probably be hurt and confused. HELP!
i have the same thing going on i asked this guy i really liked out and he rejected me but he then after that asked my best friend out she doesnt know wat to say but im really upset wat should i do
that same thing happend to me i like this guy ALOT i gave him ALL the signals like smiling everytime we saw each other, walking by him, practically sitting by him at lunch and then one day HE ASKED MY FRIEND OUT!!!! she knew i liked him and she didnt like him so she said no but what can i do now he now knows that i like him sombody told him but he hasnt come in contact with me since i guess the only reason he was ever close to us was to flirt with my friend i thought he liked me so what should i do i think he might ask me out should i say yes or no part of me wants to say no cause after he asked my friend out i got tottally discusted at the thought of him the other half of me wants to say yes but i feel like he would only ask me out cause he knows i like him and he wants to flirt easier with my friend WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!
in life you have to learn to get up and go. if it is meant to be, then it will be. until then u have to move on.. if he was on u then he wud ave asked u, but the fact that he didnt, is not rocket science (HE AINT ON U!!!!) it hurt :-( but we all find people who adore us. let your friend be happy, and karma will make sure that u get your own dose of happiness. u get wat u give. so give joy and celebration, then u will get the same back. men don’t like bitter women, so leave this one alone, or no guy will come close to you, cos u will stink big tym.
Im in your situation kind of…
i liked this guy and he kept acting like he also liked me
but then one day before he went on his bus he told his friend
he liked my best friend. I didnt figure this out until my best friend
called me and told me what she overheard
i was sad, crying and what not. But i have keep in mind
life is just like this and i can’t make him like me
A guy will come into your life sooner or later realizing he likes you for
who you really are
I must say im really glad my best friend told me this instead of keeping it
i said to her
so are you going to go out with him?
she said No way, i would never go for him for 2 reasons
I dont like him like that
and You like him, and i want to keep you happy :)
one of my best friends recently got asked out by my crush. and when I asked her about it, she told me she likes him too. She’s a great friend and doesnt want to hurt my feelings so she began asking of my approval. I feel so bad about it and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to get in between their “happiness” but it just hurts so much I don’t know if I can take it. I know there are many guys out there and I know I’ll probably find a better guy one day. but it’s really affecting everything I do now. I’m just constantly thinking about it and just the thought of them two together puts me on the verge of tears.
It’s really stupid to have been waiting on this guy, but I really held him close to my heart and I don’t know if I’m ready to let him go.
I need some kind of remedy. FAST!
this is almost wats going on with me but i like guy since second grade and hes going out with my bestfriend but my friend doesnt know i like him so i really dont know what to do help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
my best friend is going out with the guy ive liked since fourth grade and she ddnt even tell me about it!! i had to hear it from one of my not so close friends and now me and my best friend arent really talking what do i do??
i am goiing through the same thing right now… i exactly know where your coming from \… they started going out like a couple days and my friend has been friends with him but has never liked him i started liking him when we were in 10th grade and im a senior now and i still like him, i told my bestfriend that i was in like love with him and she was oh i cant see how and that she never looked at him like that then a couple of weeks after i told her she came to me and said i see what you see now not implying that she liked him so i kept asking her and she said i told you last night and she kept smiling so i was like you do not thinking that she was thinking about asking him out or them going out then i found out to days later that they were a couple i was so pissed off and i still am but its like im not mad at her or jealous im just mad that i didnt ask him when i had a chance too and i kept lying to her and telling her i didnt like him that much anymore ..even though i do.
hey, there is this boy i like and so does my friend. Almost everyday, they ( my friend and him) chatted on skype and so on. So then my friend and i always asked him what he thinks about me/her. he said that he likes me, and to her: that he reallly likes her. One night he asked her if she wants to be together with him and she said yes. Then she wrote me a sms and after i read the sms, i cried cause it is just not fair. I was sooooo jealous of her since she is the prettiest one of us, she is also very smart, lots of guys like her. Sometimes i just wish I was like her. They also already planned their first date. What should I do. I am soooooo sad about it, but i dont want my friend to know that I cried and I dont want her to think that I dont think she deserves him. But I just didnt understand why she said yes even though she knew i like him a lot. Should I just pretend, that I am ok with it?What should I do?
Please help me!!!!
guys are jerks sometimes.you want them to like you so bad!!! but remember, boys have feelings and thoughts too. not matter how much youwant him to notice how wonderful and brilliant you are, he still can have his opinion. it sucks, but thats how it is. i sawrry:(
okay so this guy is hella popular right and you know how team edward and jacob is a big thing well, his name is devin madina and his older brother is lil bit cute but anyway at my school thsres team devin team kyle and its funny cuz im mean to him so he has no clue that im madly in love with him so ya.. one of my bf liked him since september and he found out it in october and i would tell him to ask her out becuz i just thought he was kutee(: but today 12/11/09 he asked her out.and im like omg wtf and i still cannot believe it im so sad and idk wat ta do
AAAHHH HELP ME
I have the same thing going on. My best friend is the number one girl that every boy likes, i’m number two. The number one boy likes her and of course she likes him. If I tell her she either will be upset or confused. I told her that I stopped liking him but he still lingers in my mind. Here is my advice don’t leave your bet friend just for this boy because it might not work out. Stay by your best friend and if you start feeling that you are upset and need her to know, tell her. If she is a true friend she wont mind.
Hey I am i am in the same situation currently.
I am sorry for you. I really suckz. I told my friend that I like him. She was upset and thought I was trying to break them up. Right now I looked this up on Google and I was lookin for info. I wish I could have help and I dont want others to feeel this way. First I would tell her. If she is a true friend she will care & most likely break up. ALthough if she doesnt care you must try to get over him. The bad thing is that she knew I liked him. I am very hurt. I like the boy she liked so she is getting back at me. I think. I asked her and she said no. I hope this helps.(:…):
im 9 i lie a boy called james atwell my bff likes him 2 and he asked me out i dident answer and then he tought i was anoying[i dont know why] then he asked my bff out she said yes know there going out hhow do i make him dump her and go out with me PLZZZZZZZ HELP ME MY EMAIL ADRESS IS i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
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Omg!!! yesterday…i got up the courage to ask out this boy i was in love with but he said no! my best friend said she didnt like him and promissed not to date him! the next day she tells me he asked HER out and she said yes.when i called her later that evaning to talk about it….her excuse was “well now i know hes cute and sweet and was so nice and brave to ask me out in front of all my friends!” do u think that helped? NOT AT ALL!!!!!!i dont know wat to do!!!!!
Oh, don’t worry. It’s only a little crush. Remember, theres more then just one fish in the sea. Youll find someone else. Try not to hold it back so much. Just forget about it. Im not sure how you feel about this, because i never ask anyone out, they normally ask me. But, try to tell them how you feel about the whole thing. It works, trust me.
well im not personnally in this situuation but a freind of mine is,so she asked me for advice,so here is mine to you guys.
-if you overheard this get to him first!;)wither heavily flirt or ask him out!
-this might be a message that he likes you,and by asking out somone close to you he wants you riled up,either so your jealose,or vunrable.
-if he told you personally it might mean he doesent like you ,and he wants you to know this.
i help this might help,if it doesent im sincerly sorry and hope that i didnt screw you up.dont rely on this just use it if you want!
I am going through the same thing. Just that week I asked my friend to help get me with this guy. Then after the weekend my friend told me she was going out with him!!!!
What shall I do!!!! :(
I know how u all feel it happened to me I have a huge crush on this guy but I found out he liked her I didn’t care but she knew I liked him and always have and he asked her out she thought of me and she said she will think about it she came to me I told her I have loved him for some time and still do so I hope u won’t so she went to tell him her answer and said yes I found out and I gave her the evils and I even cried because he only hung around me and he asked me about myself and he even told me things he didn’t tell his girlfriend at that time and I kept my head held high with the support of my other friends and it has turned out great because he broke up with her for me and now she has a new boyfriend so it turned out great but I was so sad to find out she only went out with him just to make me jealous
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