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Alright, I am another small issue and this is more of my ballpark.

My best friend is currenting dating someone else, and they hang out regulary, me with them from time to time. I don’t know her all that well, from talk yes, but in person no, and she doesn’t know me that well, becuase she hasn’t really heard about me. She wants to get to know me better, but one problem, she wants to talk without my bud there. I helped ruin a relationship with him and another last time when I became friends to his girlfriend… we both don’t want that hapening again. He says that she is going to try and see me when he’s off work tommorrow. We have both talked about this, but I ask the crowd, What should I do?

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hotdog321 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I don’t see a problem with talking to her…just be yourself. If she wants to talk about issues that you’re not comfortable, simply tell her. NEVER spread gossip.

I don't see a problem with talking to her...just be yourself. If she wants to talk about issues that you're not comfortable, simply tell her. NEVER spread gossip.

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jcd 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

How did you ruin a relationship last time just by being friends with his girlfriend?

How did you ruin a relationship last time just by being friends with his girlfriend?

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Grifton, NC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I asked questions wanting to confirmed what I heard from my best friend, mainly, I think that was the main cuase

I asked questions wanting to confirmed what I heard from my best friend, mainly, I think that was the main cuase

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Grifton, NC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I don’t spread gossip, and alright.. but the issues will most likly be about my past, none I wish to share to her.

I don't spread gossip, and alright.. but the issues will most likly be about my past, none I wish to share to her.

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Emilie T 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

The best thing is probably to go with how you feel. If you arn’t happy hanginig out with someone for whatever reason, you arn’t obligated to..you could always say you are busy. No one ought to be pressured to share details about themselves…oh no!

The best thing is probably to go with how you feel. If you arn't happy hanginig out with someone for whatever reason, you arn't obligated to..you could always say you are busy. No one ought to be pressured to share details about themselves...oh no!

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jcd 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

If the issues are about your past, just tell her you don’t know her well enough yet to discuss your past with her.

If the issues are about your past, just tell her you don't know her well enough yet to discuss your past with her.

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Grifton, NC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

cool, its the simple answers I forget, Thanks!

cool, its the simple answers I forget, Thanks!

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nextstar 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Just act cool & casual with her , treat her just as a friend , just don’t go out with her alone without your friend again . Don’t get so close to her ..just a chat with her to know you .

Just act cool & casual with her , treat her just as a friend , just don't go out with her alone without your friend again . Don't get so close to her ..just a chat with her to know you .

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Grifton, NC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (7 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Yeah.. they both came to the library, and than he left while she stayed for a while. I believe that she was trying to strike up a conversation, about why I don’t really talk, and I shot it down fast with a casual “I’m not a talkative person.” She flipped through her magizine and eventually left.

Yeah.. they both came to the library, and than he left while she stayed for a while. I believe that she was trying to strike up a conversation, about why I don't really talk, and I shot it down fast with a casual "I'm not a talkative person." She flipped through her magizine and eventually left.

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