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I’m sick and tired of my fiance, she tells me that

it’s okay for me to have another girl on the side and if I was to cheat on her she’d still be with me. We’re taking care of four foster children and I love them, they think of me as their father, so the question is—- If Idon’t want to be with her anymore, should I dump her or should I stay with her because of the kids?

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normanjames0874 offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

The kids are ages, 6, 5, 3, and 1, it’s hard to say if I’ll see them again, they’ve been put through a lot already while they were in foster care and by their no-good birth mother. I’m tired of my fiance but I don’t want to do anything to hurt the kids because I love them toooooo much

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

Don’t do it even if she tells you it’s ok. I once told my husband to be with another girl and he did and it hurt me later. TRust me she doesn’t mean that…It’s a test!

Yeah girls play mind games.

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robkelle offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Ephrata, PA, US | 3 years, 1 month ago (3 hours, 49 minutes after post)

do not go for the second woman queen is right! may counsleing together or seoerately would be the answer.

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ethan.t offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (20 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Whatever happens, i kno it will be hard but definantly stay together for the kids. Kids need 2 parents

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