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Read this.

Now.

And do as I ask. I know that’s rude. A lot of you probably don’t like me much. I am brash, crude and arrogant at times. You hate me? that’s fine. please keep reading.
One of my helper friends, and probably one known to many of you needs our help. I know that is what this site is for but this is different. She doesn’t need our advice (though that may come later) she needs our help.

This is what I want you to do;

You have to visualise Tinkerbell. Yes the fairy from Peter Pan. I don’t care if this sounds a little stupid to you. I am begging you to do this. Please. It is not for me.

Once you have a good, clear picture of Tinkerbell in your mind, I want you to imagine love, good fortune and happiness flowing out from you and into Tinkerbell. I dont care how stupid or crazy or childish you think I am being. Please do this. Please. I beg you.

As many of you as read this. Invite your friends to read this post and do it too. Imagine it. Love. Good fortune. Happiness. Flowing from your body and into Tinkerbell.

If you want to include God, Jesus, Allah, the Buddhas, whoever, that is great. Please try.

Visualise this. Imagine that with each outward breath from you, it flows into Tinkerbell. Keep it up for as long as you can. For the rest of the day. whenever you have a moment, close your eyes and do this. Please. I beg you.

I won’t reply to anything anyone posts here. I don’t mean to be rude, but this doesn’t need explanation. It needs us to try. As many people as possible.

I’m stupid. i don’t know how to invite everyone to read this. If anyone else can invite lots of people, I would be indebted to you if you would be so kind.

I know this sounds a little crazy, but please. It’s not a joke. please try this. Close your eyes and imagine.

‘Bell, if this is embarassing for you, I am deeply sorry. I didn’t know what else to do. I couldn’t sit and do nothing. I couldn’t bear it.

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Miss em offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gort, 10, IE | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Bell has all my good feelings and hope:) x x x x

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1 year, 10 months ago (8 minutes after post)

hope everything works out!!!!!!

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Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

someone needs our love

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Tinkerbell I visualize you happy, healthy, and whole. Surrounded by love. And so it is.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (16 minutes after post)

good vibes going out to tinkerbell. light, hope, peace and dark chocolate.

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Eagle Lake, ME, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (33 minutes after post)

ok… you got it. Hope it all works out for you.

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1 year, 10 months ago (59 minutes after post)

ripples in life only make us stronger hang on to the ones you love and hope for the best

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Michael Leibman offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

paranoiaman wrote:
I’m stupid.

See that’s the thing — when most things you write glitter with intelligence, profundity or social wisdom, how can I make sense of how honest or true your words are if you then constantly proclaim your stupidity?

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

It’s all done with mirrors. And good tailoring. Now GET VISUALISING.
I replied. ****.
Stupid and a liar.

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'Bell offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Thank you all so very much for your kind words and taking to time to send us your good wishes and thoughts.

I’d never have known when I stumbled across this site one day that I’d have been given the key to the strength in humanity, a group of people with good intentions, well wishes and genuine sincerity, and just as important good humour. We are all here for a good manner of reasons, and between every one of us, we could tell a tale or two, but one thing links us all, the need for help and support, and the need and desire to help and support others. No matter what brings us to our time of need, there is always a listening and caring ear, be it for practical advice, or just some support.

Thank you all. A thank you paranoiaman, again, for your continued support.

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paranoiaman offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

My motives are entirely selfish. Where would we be without the magic and wisdom of our faerie friends? Big hugs, ‘Bell. Now be off with you! You are ruining my carefully cultured image, fairy.

Keep imagining, everyone. Whenever you remember and have a moment. And thank you all.

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Hey wait a minute! Thinking of TinkerBell… Smiles all around her. Sunlight shining down. A clear path to where she wants to be. Love everywhere on her way there.
Hey Bell, you’re a lucky girl! :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 54 minutes after post)

I Hope that whatever troubles you is soon corrected :)
I wish you luck!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I’d like to expand my good thoughts to all of those sweet people that responded with love and kindess.

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Gvle, 03, SE | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

Para, I did not know you. And I did not know ‘Bell.
I did not read your previous posts, and when you said that you are stupid, I was almost prepared to accept that.

But then I read this post, invited by Lazy. Understanding nothing, I looked through the shouts for a while.
And I must say, you have a very good heart and you are not at all stupid!

My sincere wellwishings got to ‘bell and the girl, my thoughts are really with them! I have experienced situations, if not similar so at least resembling about their case. I know how terrible the results of bureaucracy and misfiring regulations can be.

There are things we can do, if not practical guidelines for the moment then at least help ‘Bell by showing her strong emotional support!

I am not familiar with the details of their case, and not with local laws and regulations. But I will be prepared to discuss it in general terms, at any time!

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1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 30 minutes after post)

good luck, im imagining the love. i hope everything will be okay.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 37 minutes after post)

hope your alright bell? got me worried now!

Anyway, i will send my thoughts out there to you. Positive energy…you never know if it works or not, but it doesnt hurt to try.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Bell,I don’t know what the problem is but You have my Love,thats a given,And for the good fortune-Father I ask that you grant bell overflowing good fortune and fill her soul with happiness and contentment.,In Jesus name,Amen…….

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 hours, 54 minutes after post)

Paranoia man,I’m really impressed,WOW!I could go on but don’t want to embarrass you or give you a big head.Just joking you big Lug you,just guessing on that:)Thank- you for opening up your big heart.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 hours, 55 minutes after post)

sorry P-man,I wrote this first,then lost and found it again.,Now who’s crazy?Wow!you have blown me away! and then some!This is so not crazy.,Instead it is creative,shows imagination with total compassion.I didn’t know you had it in you.Of course I’ll be glad to do all I can.I’m impressed and honored you asked.Thank-you for opening up that big heart,you big lug(I’m guessing and joking)And keep us posted if s thing arises that we may overlook.K? K:)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Hello Bell, i don’t know what it is about and how it is now but I hope things are going to work out for you.
True, this site does need some lovin’. :) Good luck!

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Tink,
I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to respond. I was invited by 3 people who must care for you very much. I got your shout, and I read what you said, but I can not comprehend it still…. so I choose to join P-man in his efforts to good will you some strength, power, and wisdom…. maybe we can even will your baby back to you. We are here for you.
love,
SW
aka
Sam

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hotdog321 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Bell…I wish you all the luck in the univeerse but, I can’t help you if I don’t know what your problem is.

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Desert Sand offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

Hey Bell,
I pray that God grants you succour and comfort at this distressing time and that he lifts this veil of worry/ sorrow from your heart, replacing it with only joy and happiness - ameen
Your friend,
Farah :)

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Desert Sand offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

paranoiaman wrote:
It’s all done with mirrors. And good tailoring. Now GET VISUALISING.
I replied. ****.
Stupid and a liar.

There’s no place nor purpose for name-calling: we’re all friends here.

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Farah wrote:

paranoiaman wrote:
It’s all done with mirrors. And good tailoring. Now GET VISUALISING.
I replied. ****.
Stupid and a liar.

There’s no place nor purpose for name-calling: we’re all friends here.

Farah: Paranoiaman wrote this post for his friend Tink…. he is calling himself names… you should really pay closer attention before you correct others.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

wow that was interesting

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! invited 15 users to read this post 1 year, 10 months ago.

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Desert Sand offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

ScreaminglyWonderful wrote:

Farah wrote:
paranoiaman wrote:
It’s all done with mirrors. And good tailoring. Now GET VISUALISING.
I replied. ****.
Stupid and a liar.

There’s no place nor purpose for name-calling: we’re all friends here.

Farah: Paranoiaman wrote this post for his friend Tink…. he is calling himself names… you should really pay closer attention before you correct others.

Well that’s reassuring…thank you :)

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Farah wrote:

ScreaminglyWonderful wrote:
Farah wrote:
paranoiaman wrote:
It’s all done with mirrors. And good tailoring. Now GET VISUALISING.
I replied. ****.
Stupid and a liar.

There’s no place nor purpose for name-calling: we’re all friends here.

Farah: Paranoiaman wrote this post for his friend Tink…. he is calling himself names… you should really pay closer attention before you correct others.

Well that’s reassuring…thank you :)

im just quoting to make it look like alot:)

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ScreaminglyWonderful offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Wilmington, NC, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

You are welcome Farah. For those of you who do not know what this is about, Tink lost custody of her 8year old daughter on Friday, (the child is biologically her husband’s, but she has raised her) now instead of the child living with Tink she is living with the mother who has a history of abuse, which is why Tink and the child’s father had custody to begin with…. P-man wrote this post to help Tink.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

the invitation is an honest call for someone who is in some sort of grieve or trouble of course slim is responding child of the fairies what is troubling you??

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Nightowl offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

I’m visualizing……….now!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Well… now that I know the story, let me also send all my love and protection to the sweet 8 year old girl. Do what you can and keep the faith, Tinkerbell.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Hello Tinkerbell.

I am sorry about your situation and for the loss of something as precious as a young child. I know the child still lives, but think about how lucky she has been to have some one as caring as yourself to look after her for the amount of time she has spent with you as her mother.

The love and teachings you have given her so far will have an influence on her for the rest of her life. You have given all you have been able to, during a period that matters to a young person.

You are going to grieve for and about this loss. It is huge. Nothing I nor any one else says is going to remove this grief. Time itself will never heel it, the wound goes to deep. Time will however give you the chance to accept it.

If you want to put yourself on my friends list I will let you have my e-mail address so that you have another person to talk to.

I will be pleased to do as the (hairy man) paranoiaman says and send hope and all my good feelings your way, I am not religious but I do send all of my love and hope to you.

If I had some fairy dust I would send that as well.

Love from Thep.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

buy a dog. dogs are always wishing good things on you

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

I quess those bells are chimes within the mind of all you truly love ,fairy dust and sparlke much in all those eyes beloved,a glitter ball so very small could only contain hope ,and dreams to fufill on all who will but surely ask of one,so shine so brightly ever so everlong and touch, upon the love that you receive from all who give you such,a perfect little tiny heart is maybe all that you possess ,but a million more could never store whats held there youre the best,i heard along the grapevine you lost your way again, but never fear o precious dear as we are all a friend,we come to lift you up again from futherest that you fall,and place you gently on the family tree that we all call the shore,a place kept safe from bad dreams face a santuary of sought,where you may rest those little wings to learn to fly once more, catch that happy vibe fairy bell

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

idk what’s going on but i visualized like crazy.

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North Jackson, OH, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

akithma wrote:
i quess those bells are chimes within the mind of all you truly love ,fairy dust and sparlke much in all those eyes beloved,a glitter ball so very small could only contain hope ,and dreams to fufill on all who will but surely ask of one,so shine so brightly ever so everlong and touch, upon the love that you receive from all who give you such,a perfect little tiny heart is maybe all that you possess ,but a million more could never store whats held there youre the best,i heard along the grapevine you lost your way again, but never fear o precious dear as we are all a friend,we come to lift you up again from futherest that you fall,and place you gently on the family tree that we all call the shore,a place kept safe from bad dreams face a santuary of sought,where you may rest those little wings to learn to fly once more, catch that happy vibe fairy bell

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North Jackson, OH, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

aaggghh that was written very well .. sorry I`m on the wii

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Missoula, MT, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

Nothing but positive thoughts for you Bell…

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Birmingham, A7, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 days, 6 hours after post)

Sending love and positive thoughts. May the Good Lord continue to shine his face upon you and life you up on the wings of eagles.

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Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

I hope pray that everything turn out alright for you Bell.

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Nottingham, J8, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

*Obeys* All the best to tinkerbell.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 days, 5 hours after post)

bloody hell ive got 8 invites to this thing.

tink: my thoughts are with you hun. this very situation often happens here in new zealand, as the maori people dont often officially adopt, but foster out children to relatives, and end up in all sorts of strife when the biological parent turns back up and takes off with the child.
i wish you all the best, my love and thoughts are with you and your child.

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Sweatheart, I just don’t know what’s up. I’m here though.

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Midvale, UT, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

I am sending love and hope your way. May you and your little fairy be catching all the love by the handful.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

And I , The same thing 2geeneyes said .

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

i have read most of the comments… but not all… but my heart goes out to you bell… may all of this bring you joy, happiness and all that you need at this very moment… lots of love… shie.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

sorry I wasnt able to reply in timely manner hope everything is okay

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Washington, DC, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

May all of the blessings of Heaven pour down on you, Bell, and for any and everyone that felt compelled to respond.

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Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

May you find peace today and every day Bell…

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