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hello, i have been dating this guy for almost a year.

and he has lied to me, cheated on me and made me feel bad about myself. and he’s mad because i dont want him to go to bike week without me and we had agreed that he would wait until i could go to. last night his dad and some of the friends basically mentally cornered me and said they wanted him to so i told them that’s fine he can go. then my boyfriend said he had no idea that they were going to do that to me. I’m so mad. I dont know what to do a part of me wants to leave him so much and the other part still loves him very much.

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geraldlover2 offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 minutes after post)

well do you think he is lying about not knowing they were gonna do that? Is he still going to bike week wothout you? Why dont you want him to go without u?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

“he has lied to me, cheated on me and made me feel bad about myself”

After this, why would you want to have anything to do with him? Even if part of you still loves him, this relationship is not good for you. Do you honestly see yourself being happy with him for the rest of your life, or even for the next year? I think it’s time for you to move on.

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geraldlover2 offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

shes so right. If he has done all of this he may love you but obviously not enough to stop all of this. I kind of have the same problem can you guys help me with mine?

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anoyma offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Girl, look i think u should leave his sorri *** cos if he dont respect you hunni then why should you respect him that all im gona say but i think you should help yourself by saying bye bye to the bloke

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theresape offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Waltham, MA, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Gee, he sounds like a lot of fun.

You date him WHY?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 hours, 7 minutes after post)

theresape wrote:
Gee, he sounds like a lot of fun.You date him WHY?

ya y would u date some1 like that?

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